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Dear Laura & Larry,
I'm sure you've heard this question a million times, but I've tried every last resort on this matter. I want to know how to prolong my sexual stamina in bed. I have tried various pills, but nothing works! I have heard that the way to last longer is foreplay, but I just don?t believe it. Yes, I do have desensitizer, but it only works for an extra 5 minutes or so. What is the secret to lasting 15?20 mins longer in bed?
--Marathon Man
Laura?s Response:
Dear Marathon Man,
First, keep a few things in mind. The average length of intercourse is around 5 minutes. More than that is just icing on the cake. Sex doesn?t have to be a marathon session to be good. If you take your cue from porn films, remember this: male performers in porn have an unnatural ability to keep it a long time, plus there are lots of stops and starts in the filming. Pills won?t really help you stay hard longer. You?re on the right track with the desensitizer, as it takes the edge off your sensitivity. The best advice I can give you is to come before you have sex. Have a good orgasm, then while you are recovering, enjoy lots of foreplay and fun with your partner. When you?re hard again, you?ll be able to last quite a bit longer before coming. Also, be sure to use plenty of lube --it cuts down on the friction, which can prolong the fun. Try a basic cock ring, like the Glow Tri Rings to keep your wand hard for up to 20 minutes. |
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Larry?s Response:
Dear Marathon,
Masturbate more. No, really.
If your little soldier is a little hyper sensitive, then frequent masturbation can often lead to decreased sensitivity that in turn leads to longer happy time. And you might want to fire one off about an hour or so before your big moment, just to clear the easy one out of the chamber. Reducing the physiological need to orgasm produced by masturbating earlier in the evening makes your second time around a lot harder to achieve. Also, if you are uncircumcised you might want to consider the operation which ? while painful as an adult ? usually leads to decreased sensitivity around the head and glans of your willy, your prime trigger zone. Beyond that, I recommend that you pace yourself. Instead of going for broke in one position until it?s too late, consider stopping when you?re almost there and doing something else ? say cunnilingus ? for fifteen minutes or so before you continue. Somehow I don?t think your woman is going to complain too much about that. Good luck!
Dear Laura and Larry,
How do I keep it smooth, razor bump- and blemish-free down there? I currently wax once a month and I don't shave in between, but I still get blackheads, acne, etc. down there. How do I get mine to look as nice as the porn stars? What's their secret?
--Smooth Lady
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