Pocket pussies are one of the most popular sex toys for men. Get all the details on these realistic strokers before you buy.

What is a Pocket Pussy?

Pocket pussies are one of Adam & Eve’s most popular sex toys for men, with thousands of them sold every week all over the world. Most are used for male masturbation, but they can be used for foreplay as well. If you like getting a handjob from your lover, just imagine how much better it can feel if they use a pocket pussy! They also make a great edging tool to bring you right to the cusp of orgasm before taking a break. With the right masturbator, you can stretch out the fun as long as you want for truly explosive orgasms!

“The sex toy market can really feel like it’s geared towards women’s pleasure—but that’s not actually the case! A recent survey found that 66% of men reported owning a sex toy, a list that includes vibrators, butt plugs and pocket pussies,” said Seattle Pacific University Adjunct Professor Brittany Steffen, MS, LMFT. “While these products can all be used with a partner, pocket pussies are more commonly used for solo sex. Sex therapists have long recommenced masturbation as a form of self-care and exploration. It’s a known mood booster and stress reliever, making pocket pussies a fantastic way to invest in self-care.”

But what exactly is a pocket pussy and what makes it different than other male masturbators?

Pocket Pussies Look Realistic

One of the hallmarks of a pocket pussy is that it looks like the real thing. Many are flesh-toned in color, including African-American, Caucasian and Latino variations. But that’s just the beginning. Most also feature a realistic opening, including a pair of lips and even a small clit. These features can even be hand painted to make the pocket pussy look even more lifelike.

The Tight Pussy Ribbed Gripper features a tiny little clit and a pair of soft lips just like the real thing.

Pocket Pussies Feel Like The Real Deal

If lifelike looks aren’t enough to satisfy you, most pocket pussies also feel extremely realistic. Sex toy makers use their own special techniques to make them feel as realistic as possible to bring your stroking fantasies to life. Pocket pussies can feel even more realistic if you warm them up beforehand. All it takes is a little warm water to make yours feel even more natural!

The Hustler MILF Pussy Masturbator is a great example of a realistic-feeling masturbator. Nunu, a product reviewer on AdamEve.com, called it a handful of pleasure. “This worked just great. Very life like and having the hole all the way through allowed relief during ejaculation.”

“If you struggle to orgasm during penetrative sex, your masturbation technique may be the root cause,” said Adjunct Professor Stevens. “Many men use a tight grip during their solo activities — a grip that can’t be replicated during vaginal intercourse. A pocket pussy can help, as it mimics the realistic sensation of penetration.”

Celebrities Have Their Own Pocket Pussies

For the ultimate realistic experience, you need to check out a celebrity molded stroker. Not only do these masturbators look and feel amazingly lifelike, but they’re actually molded from real women to take your fantasy to the next level. Just imagine how much fun you could have watching your favorite starlet, while stroking off with her pocket pussy!

A great example of a celebrity molded pocket pussy is Belladonna’s Pocket Stroker. Adam & Eve also carries strokers molded from Sasha Grey, Jesse Jane, Dani Daniels and many others, so you can get down and dirty with your favorite performer!

Strokers That Are Sized Just Right

Another signature trait of pocket pussies is their size. Most usually measure 4-6 inches long by 2-3 inches wide. Don’t let those measurements fool you, however. Male masturbators are incredibly stretchy, so they can easily handle guys of all sizes. No matter how big you are, there’s one for you!

Pocket pussies fit comfortably in the palm of your hand, so you can control them easily while you’re pumping away. Many also feature an ergonomic or textured grip so they won’t fly out of your hands even if they’re slippery with lube! For extra stimulation, you can squeeze it mid-stroke. It feels like your lover’s “milking” your shaft for an even more lifelike feel.

Their size also makes them easy to hide to protect your privacy. Unlike larger masturbators, you can tuck a pocket pussy at the bottom of a drawer or on the back of a shelf in your “man cave” where no one’s likely to find it. Or you could throw one in the bottom of your suitcase to spice up your next business trip. Many guys who spend a lot of time on the road, such as truckers, also carry a stroker with them.

At just 4.75 inches long, The Showgirl is travel-friendly for fun on the go. Cowboy up 85 noted in a product review, "This stroker is about as close to the real thing you can get. My wife likes to use it for teasing and denial and it drive me nuts. Would buy again for sure. A must have."

A Love Tunnel Full of Stimulating Features

Another thing that distinguishes pocket pussies is their ability to increase your pleasure – making them a lot more fun and enjoyable than your hand! They have a snug-fitting interior that hugs your shaft like a soft glove, making them feel extremely lifelike. Some pocket pussies are even tighter than others, to give you that special “first time” feeling.

Their interiors are lined with different stimulators to drive you wild. There are soft and flexible ribs that massage up and down your shaft like tiny fingers as you stroke away. There are small pleasure nubs that rub against your sensitive tip. There are long, flexible ticklers that tickle you like a tongue. These stimulators combine to form different textures to leave you moaning and groaning in no time!

Some toys, like the Ashley Pocket Puss even come with a bullet vibrator for additional stimulation. The bullet slips inside a special pocket in the back to make the entire masturbator shake and quiver like a lover having an intense orgasm!

What are Closed-Ended Pocket Pussies?

When you’re shopping for a pocket pussy, they come in two major types: closed-ended or open-ended. Those industry terms can be a little confusing if you’re not familiar with them. After all, how can use you a stroker if it’s completely closed off?

The terms actually refer to the back of the male stroker. So, closed-ended pocket pussies have a single opening in the front, while the back is completely sealed off or closed. Open-ended masturbators have an opening in the front and a second opening in the back. While the difference might not seem like a big deal, it does impact how you use your pocket pussy.

If you’re interested in maximum stimulation, then closed-ended pocket pussies are exactly what you need. Sliding your shaft into the sleeve pushes air out and generates a small vacuum inside. Every time you pull back, this vacuum gently pulls on your shaft. This creates a slight sucking sensation, so it feels like you’re getting head!

While technically not a pocket pussy since it’s shaped like a mouth instead of a vagina, the Naughty Nibbler is the perfect example of a closed-ended stroker. It comes with a small tongue and even teeth for a more realistic blowjob. BobbyRay wrote in a product review: “The texture is great the teeth feel amazing, you can definitely feel them but not overwhelming. The design is pretty life like.”

What are Open-Ended Pocket Pussies?

As outlined above, open-ended pocket pussies have an opening in the front and a second opening in the back. This makes them great for longer guys. Since they’ve got an open back, you can pump the stroker up and down your entire length to work your whole shaft. Open-ended masturbators are also easier to clean. When you’re finished, you can simply hold one end up to a faucet, turn on the water and flush it out. The open end also allows them to dry quickly afterwards.

The Super Head Honcho Masturbator is an incredibly popular open-ended masturbator. Adam & Eve has sold over 350,000 of these strokers to guys all over the world. The original version was named Sex Toy of the Year by famous sexpert Sue Johanson. With a longer tunnel and redesigned interior, the new version is even better!

Tifosi44 wrote in a product review: “The designer of this fantastic product should be given a HUGE bonus. ‘Edging’ with this product is the most pleasurable, but difficult technique to perform as it will suck the Orgasm out of you! Just enjoy every thing about this great product.”

Fleshlights vs. Pocket Pussies: Which is the Better Masturbator?

Pocket pussies and Fleshlights are both extremely popular with many devoted and passionate fans. So, which one should you buy? Fleshlights are larger and more durable than pocket pussies. One of the biggest features of Fleshlights is their plastic case, which creates a sucking-like sensation and makes them easy to store. However, they’re also much more expensive than pocket pussies.

Generally speaking, pocket pussies are better for beginners, people who travel frequently and guys on a budget. On the other hand, Fleshlights are generally better for more experienced guys with bigger wallets.

If you really like the idea of a plastic case, there are a few pocket pussies that come with one such as the Shower Stroker Pussy. Like its name suggests, this stroker is optimized for shower play. It comes in a small plastic case with a cord so you can hang it up when you’re not using it. It’s made from a specially treated material that becomes super slick with just a little water so you can use it without needing any lube.

Another Fleshlight-like pocket pussy is the 2-in-1 Stroker. This masturbator comes in its own plastic case with a sticker on the end so you can adjust the intensity of the suction. And to make things even more fun, one end of this pocket pussy is shaped like a vagina while the other looks like an ass. Beat that Fleshlight!


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