A pocket pussy is just what you need to take your masturbation game to the next level. Check out these tips and advice from sex toy experts to get the most out of your male masturbator.

How to Use a Pocket Pussy

If you want to take your stroking game to the next level, then pocket pussies are just what you need. Many of these male masturbators feature a realistic look and feel so you can bring your favorite fantasies to life. Their interiors are lined with pleasure nubs, ribs, ticklers and teasers to offer more stimulation than your bare hand ever could. And pocket pussies offer plenty of other stimulation options for even more fun.

According to Adam & Eve's resident sexpert Dr. Jenni Skyler, PhD, LMFT and CST, "Your self pleasure practice need not be the same simple stroking you’ve done day in and day out. The pocket pussy brings you a new level of variety and excitement."

While pocket pussies are easy to use, they can be somewhat difficult to master. Read on to find out how you can get the most pleasure possible out of a pocket pussy.

Getting Ready to Use a Pocket Pussy

Before using your pocket pussy, there are a few simple things you’ll need to do to get the most enjoyment out of your sex toy. First, you’ll need some lube. Most pocket pussies are made from TPE, TPR or a realistic material like Ultraskyn. This makes them compatible with both water-based and silicone-based lubes. If your stroker is made from silicone, however, you should only use a water-based lube.

Second, you’ll need some time and possibly privacy. While you can stroke one out quickly with a pocket pussy, it’s a lot more thrilling if you’ve got plenty of time to enjoy yourself. And while performing for an audience might be cool for an exhibitionist, most guys prefer to keep their personal time private. The last thing you want is someone interrupting you mid-stroke!

Last, but definitely not least, most guys also enjoy some form of visual stimulation while using their pocket pussy. If your pocket pussy is molded from a particular star, try watching one of their scenes or checking out their pictures while using it. Seeing your favorite adult star perform while feeling their pocket pussy wrapped around your shaft can lead to some truly explosive finishes! Sure, you could use your imagination in a pinch, but having some sexy videos or photos to inspire you makes your pocket pussy much more fun.

3 Easy Steps for Using a Pocket Pussy

Spread the pocket pussy open and squirt a generous amount of lube inside the love tunnel. Then insert a finger or two and spread it around until every inch of the inner love tunnel is coated in a thin layer of lube. Squirt some more lube in your hand and rub it up and down your shaft, making sure your penis is completely covered from your tip down to your base.

"Lube is the wingman you always want with you when upping your stroke game," said Dr. Jenni.

Once you’re all lubed up, slowly insert the tip of your penis inside the pocket pussy. Don’t be worried if it looks too small for you to fit. Just like the real thing, pocket pussies can stretch easily to handle even the biggest guys. Plus, the lube makes it a lot easier too.

Next, start pumping your pocket pussy up and down your shaft. You should hold the stroker securely in your hand, not too tight but not too loose. Start with short strokes focusing on your tip before moving it up & down your whole shaft. Let the pocket pussy – not your hand – do the work. Then just keep stroking away until you’re finished!

Stroking Tips & Tricks for Pocket Pussies

There are a lot of different things you can do to enhance your fun when using a pocket pussy. One of the easiest techniques is simply squeezing the pocket pussy. When you squeeze the stroker, you make it tighter. And most guys will agree that tighter is better. You also cause the stimulators lining the inside of the stroker to press down on your shaft and tip for increased pleasure. You can further enhance your pleasure by alternating your grip from tight to loose. This creates a pulsing sensation that feels like your partner squeezing their muscles to work your shaft.

Another great method is alternating your rhythm and pace. Start out with long, slow strokes that work your entire shaft. As you get closer to finishing, you can gradually switch over to shorter and faster strokes for a more powerful orgasm.

All that extra stroking can help increase your endurance in bed. "The pocket pussy simulates the inside of a vagina, mouth or anus, allowing you to practice your stokes to last longer when with a partner," said Dr. Jenni.

Last but not least, you can enhance your stroking pleasure by twisting your wrist. This causes your pocket pussy to rotate around on your shaft, allowing the stimulating ticklers and teasers inside to work their magic. You’ll be amazed how good this can feel, especially when it’s focusing on the sensitive tip of your penis.

Our Favorite Male Masturbators

If you’re still shopping for a pocket pussy, the Super Head Honcho Masturbator is a great choice. One of Adam & Eve’s most popular strokers, the Super Head Honcho was originally recommended by famous sexpert Sue Johanson. And it continues to deliver insanely intense thrills years later! Another great choice for a pocket pussy is the All In Stroker. This beauty is see-through so you can watch your shaft pumping away. And it’s lined with an impressive array of stimulating ribs, ticklers and teasers to drive you wild!

Oral-Like Suction with a Pocket Pussy

Did you know that some pocket pussies can actually suck on your shaft? This oral-like suction occurs whenever you use a closed-ended pocket pussy. (A closed-ended pocket pussy is open at one end and closed at the other.) As you stroke away, your shaft pushes air out of the sleeve. This creates a gentle vacuum inside which pulls and tugs on your shaft whenever you pull it out. Many users compare the sucking sensation of their masturbator with getting head. But you can also recreate the experience with an open-ended stroker as well. (Open-ended pocket pussies have an opening in the front and the back.) Just pinch the open end closed with your hand or with a binder clip. The suction won’t be quite as strong, but you’ll still have a ton of fun trying it out!

There are a number of pocket pussies that specialize in suction. One of the most popular is the Sasha Grey Deep Throat Pocket Pal. Adam & Eve has sold over 60,000 of these strokers, leading to satisfied guys all over the world. One of them wrote in a review, "If you're tired of the old fashion way of pleasing yourself, you'll like this pocket pal very much."

Another great pocket pussy is the Super Sucker UR3 Masturbator. This stroker is lined with massaging ribs for additional stimulation with every stroke. Adam & Eve customer RedDog wrote, “Easy to use and nice and firm plus great suction made it feel more realistic. And the more u feel like its the real deal the better ur going to orgasm. I know I did.”

Pocket Pussy + Vibrations = Explosive O’s

Another easy way to increase your pleasure is by adding a small vibrator, usually a bullet, to your pocket pussy. Bullets are small, mini vibes that pack a powerful punch. Just turn the bullet on and slip it inside the masturbator. The stimulating vibrations will work your tip and shaft for intense thrills that will leave you exploding faster and harder than ever.

Some pocket pussies even come with their own vibes to get you started. The Hustler Vibrating Pussy Masturbator uses a strong single-speed bullet that leaves the entire pocket pussy shaking from top to bottom. The My Girl 2-in-1 Vibrating Stroker comes with a pocket rocket vibe for more intense stimulation. Both of these vibrating strokers even have a special pocket that holds a vibe in place so it won’t get in your way.

If your pocket pussy doesn’t come with a vibrator, then you can find plenty of bullets and other mini vibes at Adam & Eve. We’ve even got multispeed bullets for more power and rechargeable ones that don’t need batteries!

Edging with a Pocket Pussy

Edging delays your pleasure to make your orgasm more intense and powerful. When you edge with a pocket pussy, you’ll want to bring yourself to the brink of an orgasm before stopping for a minute or two to “catch your breath and cool down.” You’ll want to do this several times in a row before finally letting yourself climax. You’ll be amazed at how much stronger your orgasm will feel!

Pocket Pussies Are Fun for Couples Too!

When most people look at a pocket pussy, they naturally think masturbation toy. But there are plenty of other ways you can use it. First, pocket pussies make a great foreplay tool. They’re a great way to get your shaft rock hard and fully erect. The additional stimulation options provided by a pocket pussy make them a lot more stimulating and satisfying than a simple hand.

Some pocket pussies can also be used as an oral aid. You’ll need an open-ended stroker. Just slide the pocket pussy down toward the base of your shaft. While your partner licks and sucks your tip, they can pump the stroker up and down your shaft for additional stimulation.

Dr Jenni added, "Couples can really enjoy the pocket pussy. Exploding into the PP means less mess for your partner. The open ended PP are great for helping in oral sex so that the giver doesn’t need to deep throat. The giver can take needed breaks and use the PP as an accessory support."

With just a little hands-on experimentation, you’re sure to find other ways you and your partner can use a pocket pussy together!

Cleaning Your Pocket Pussy

Once you’re done, you can’t just roll over and go to sleep. You still need to clean out your pocket pussy. This is best done as soon as possible. It’s much harder if you wait a few hours or overnight.

Open-ended pocket pussies (i.e. ones that have an opening at both ends) are the easiest to clean. Simply hold one end up to a faucet before turning it on. This flushes your pocket pussy out. Afterwards, you can finish washing your pocket pussy in warm, soapy water and spraying it with a sanitizing antibacterial toy cleaner. Closed-ended pocket pussies (i.e. ones that have an opening at only one end) are a little harder to clean because you can’t simply flush them out. You still wash them in warm, soapy water, but you’ll need to spend some extra time making sure that the interior is completely cleaned out.

After that, you can finish by spraying your pocket pussy with a sex toy cleaner.

Once you’ve finished washing your pocket pussy, dry it off with a lint-free cloth – making sure that the inner tunnel is completely dry. Once it’s dry, store your pocket pussy in a cool, dark place. You don’t want it exposed to direct sunlight or near sources of heat like a radiator. You can make cleaning quicker and easier by wearing a condom the next time you use your pocket pussy. Take good care of your pocket pussy, and it’s sure to keep you happy for many nights to come!


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