Sexual fantasies are something everyone thinks about. The truly surprising thing is how common certain fantasies are. Here’s America’s most popular sexual fantasies… and how you can turn them from a fantasy into reality!
#5 Fantasy – Open Relationships
When you love your current partner but just want to branch out a little, you can easily end up in an open relationship. This takes a lot of different forms, including swinging, polyamory, hot wiving and more. Discuss swinging with your significant other and see how they react. If they’re interested, you can easily find some online communities made up of similarly-minded couples near you.
#4 Fantasy – Taboo Sex
Deep down inside, we all secretly love doing something we’re not supposed to. And that holds especially true with sex. Out of all the sexual taboos out there, voyeurism topped the list with exhibitionism coming in a close second. Apparently, we like to watch others just a little more than we like showing off! And it seems that both sides of the coin liked it even more when they were all dressed up in stockings, panties and bras. If you like dressing up sexy or want to see your partner in a naughty little number, then check out some of our risqué lingerie for women and men. The cupless and crotchless pieces are particularly popular!
#3 Fantasy – Experimentation
Keeping things in bed fresh and exciting can challenge even the most passionate couples. That’s why it’s no surprise that sexual experimentation made the top fantasies list. Experimentation can involve a lot of different topics, depending on your kinkiness level. For some couples, it could mean having sex in the shower in the shower instead of the bedroom. While other couples might need to try something wilder like strap-on sex. Most couples cited an interest in anal play and sex. If a little anal action gets your motor purring, check out our guides to backdoor play and anal sex to learn everything you need to know. Then shop our wide range of anal toys.
#2 Fantasy – BDSM
The 50 Shades of Grey helped popularize BDSM, turning it from America’s kinkiest secret to something all the cool couples are trying. While BDSM fantasies cover a wide range of activities, spanking actually came up the most often. If you want to take your partner over your knees, then you’re sure to love our kinky paddles, whips and riding crops. And after you’ve been punished, you can try some other BDSM games and let the kinky fun continue.
#1 Fantasy – Group Sex
The more the merrier! Group sex (including threesomes, foursomes & orgies) tops the fantasy list for both men and women. There’s just something about rolling around in bed with multiple partners that drives our imaginations wild. Start things out with a candid conversation with your partner. If you’re both interested in trying it, then check out our Guide to Threesomes to help you get started.
