Think about all the great things your partner does for you every day – even simple things like taking out the trash or washing the dishes. Now, when’s the last time you said thank you? If you’re feeling a little guilty right now, you’re not the only one. Sure, you could send them some flowers or a card. But showing just how much you appreciate them in the bedroom is a lot more fun!
Oral Sex
There’s no better way to say thank you than no-strings-attached head! The next chance you get, just kneel down between your lover’s legs and get to licking. The surprise makes it even hotter. And if they decide to return the favor, that just gives you something else to be thankful for!
Bring Their Favorite Fantasy to Life
Another great way to show your appreciation is by treating your lover to something special in bed. Their favorite fantasy might involve anything from anal sex to roleplaying to a threesome. It might take a little extra work on your part to make it happen, but your lover’s definitely worth it. If you have to practice with a butt plug beforehand, then do it. If you need to order a special costume because your lover has fantasies about cops or firemen, then start shopping.
Plan a Romantic Day
Spending time together is a great way to show your lover just how thankful you are for everything they do. And that means planning a special, romantic day together. If you haven’t done this in a while, that makes it even more meaningful.
Start out by planning a special activity that your lover really enjoys doing. It might be a walk through the woods, a visit to the beach or a lake, or just staying at home and watching a movie. Then throw in some of their favorite food. You could go out to their favorite restaurant or just pick up some takeout. If you really want to go all out, then do the cooking yourself and treat them to a candlelit dinner with a bottle of their favorite wine.
As for afterwards, add a more intimate twist. You might take your lover out dancing, watch the sunset together or simply run them a warm, sensual bath and promise not to disturb them. While you might be tempted to take things further, it’s better to let your lover take the lead. Your goal today is to pamper your lover and show them just how thankful you are. You don’t want to risk spoiling that by making them think you had ulterior motives.
Treat Them to a Sensual Massage
Who doesn’t love getting a sensual massage? If you take this route, make sure you go all out – complete with scented candles, soothing music and heated massage oils. Gently rub and massage your lover from head to toe, making sure to reach every muscle group as well as any sore points they might have. They’ll turn into putty in your hands in no time… and then you can give them a well-deserved happy ending!
