One of the biggest problems with anal sex is the man going too fast or too deep. This anal sex position erases those problems by placing the woman in charge. Being on top allows the woman to control the speed and how deep he goes so she can have a more comfortable and enjoyable anal sex experience.
Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new
Pros & Cons
+ Allows her to control the pace and depth of penetration
– More physically challenging than other sex positions
Instructions
Start with some extensive backdoor teasing to make sure her backdoor is fully relaxed.
The man lies flat on his back with his legs slightly spread. After applying a generous amount of anal lube to his penis and her backdoor, the woman slowly lowers herself on top of his shaft while facing away with him. He should guide his shaft into her rear. She can then use her leg muscles to raise and lower herself for limited penetration. If she wants to go deeper, she can rock or bounce on top of him.
When having anal sex in any position, it's important to take it slow and steady to give her body time to adjust to the experience. Make sure to have plenty of lube on hand so you can re-apply as needed. And be sure to stop immediately if you experience any pain or discomfort.