A lot of people love 69ing. According to our Great American Sex Survey, it’s one of the most popular sex positions year after year. And it’s no surprise why. Licking, blowing, and sucking on your lover while they do the same to you is incredibly stimulating. The shared sensations create a feedback loop for more intense pleasure. But nothing’s perfect, so here are a few easy ways to make this oral sex position even better!
Use Your Hands
Most people think 69ing is all about oral, so they focus on using their mouths and tongues. But you can dramatically enhance your experience by including your hands too! While your mouth and tongue are busy, use your hands to stimulate other erogenous zones such as her breasts or his balls. You might even use them for a little backdoor fun too! And if your jaw muscles need a break, your hands can take over to keep the action going.
Vary Your Technique
Doing the same thing over and over again during sex gets boring fast. And that applies to oral too. When you’re 69ing, it’s important to vary just how fast you’re licking (or sucking or blowing) and how much pressure you’re applying. Switch techniques to keep your lover guessing. And vary just where you’re licking, sucking and blowing. That could mean switching from her clit to her lips or from his tip to his frenulum (the spot where his tip and shaft meet).
Pull Out Your Toy Box
Sex toys can make everything better! When it comes to 69ing, try using a bullet vibrator. These small vibes deliver focused power with every touch. They fit easily in your hand, so you can position them to tease your lover’s most sensitive spots as your mouth keeps working its magic. Dildos are another great toy for 69ing. You can use them to work your lover’s inner sweet spots while your tongue focuses on their outer ones. And if you like getting naughty, you could throw some anal toys into the mix!
Most couples 69 in bed, but there are plenty of other places you can do it! If it’s just the two of you, try breaking in the living room couch or recliner. You could 69 on top of a table or desk or on the floor too. And if you’re feeling adventurous, you could try it in the backseat of your car or in a sex swing. Just make sure the swing can support your combined weight before climbing in!
Lie On Your Side… Or Some Other Position
Many couples stick to a missionary-based 69, with one on top and the other on the bottom. But you can 69 in plenty of other positions. One of the most comfortable variations involves both of you lying on your sides, almost like you’re spooning. This version of 69 is easier on your back, leg and neck muscles – making it more comfortable and enjoyable.