Don’t waste time visiting the spa when you can really pamper yourself with sex toys for women.  Learn everything you need to know about women’s sex toys, including how to find the best ones and tips about using them. Women’s sex toys are a lot more fun than getting a mud facial anyday!

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Ultimate Women's Sex Toys Guide

If you've got a question about sex toys for women, then Adam and Eve has the answer! Our Ultimate Women's Toys Guide is filled with inside information, tips and advice to help you find the very best sex toys for women, learn how to use them, and how to clean them. Because if you take care of your sex toys, they'll take care of you for many nights to come!

What are Women's Sex Toys?

You're a hard-working women, you deserve to play hard too! Women's sex toys come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors. But they're all designed for women like you to have fun! Women's sex toys can squeeze your nipples, tickle your clit, stroke your G-Spot, exercise your vaginal muscles and a whole more. And they'll never leave the toilet seat up!

How to Find the Best Women's Toys

There are hundreds of different women's sex toys to choose from, which can make it really hard to find the right toy for you. We asked Adam & Eve's sex toy experts for some advice, and they put together a "dating guide" for women's toys so you can find your ideal match.

Women's ToysProsConsUses
Anal Sex Toy

Anal Sex Toys

Made from anal-friendly materials

Includes special safety features

Not every woman is comfortable with backdoor play

Anal stimulation

Ben Wa Balls

Ben Wa Balls

Strengthens your vaginal muscles

Not as stimulating as other toys

Kegel exercises

Stronger orgasms

Vaginal Pump

Clit & Vaginal Pumps

Pulls blood into your vagina

Effects don't last long

Increases your sensitivity



Fills you up like nothing else

Never needs batteries

Not as stimulating as a vibrator

Discreet vaginal and G-Spot stimulation

Nipple Clamps

Nipple Toys

Pinches & squeezes your nipples

Can be hard to balance pleasure & pain

Nipple stimulation



Powerful and intense stimulation

Requires batteries or nearby electrical outlet

Some can be loud

Most likely to cause an orgasm

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How to Buy Women's Toys

Now that you're familiar with the different types of women's sex toys, it's time to do some serious shopping. Here's some other things you need to know about sex toys before hitting the Add to Cart button.

Women's Toys Materials

Start With Materials.
Smart sex toy shoppers know that material makes a big difference in how you use a toy and care for it as well. If you want something soft and flexible, stick with silicone, TPE or TPR. Plastic and glass are also a good materials for Women's sex toys if you want something firmer.

Women's Toys Budget

Plan Your Women's Toys Budget.
There are women's toys out there for all types of budgets. You can buy a basic dildo or vibrator for just a few bucks. Or you can splurge on a brand-name vibrator that does everything but make coffee for you the next morning.

Women's Toys Size

Determine the Size of Your Toy.
Size really does matter when it comes to women's sex toys. Before buying a dildo or vibrator, double-check the measurements to make sure it's not too big for you. And you don't want a toy that's too small for you to feel either! The average sized sex toy is about 1" wide and 5-6" long. Start there and then you can always move up to something bigger later.

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How to Use Women's Toys

It's finally time to try out your new sex toy! Here's what you need to know before you get start getting frisky.

Using Sex Toy

Get Ready.
Wash your sex toy before using it for the first time. Find a comfortable place where you won't be disturbed.

Get Set.
Once everything's ready, apply some lube to your toy and yourself as well. Since sex toys aren't very good at foreplay, a little lube can help you get started.

Let's Go.
Rub the tip of the dildo or vibrator around your vagina, while gently teasing your most sensitive spots. Then slowly insert the toy and start slowly moving the toy. Once your body's adjusted to the toy, you can pick up the pace and really go wild.

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Cleaning & Caring for Women's Toys

Cleaning women's sex toys isn't nearly as bad as cleaning the bathroom - especially if your partner has "bad aim." Here are three easy to remember rules to keep in mind.

Women's Toys Cleaner

#1 Clean your toy before and after each use.
The easiest way to do this is by spraying it with antibacterial sex toy cleaner and then wiping it off with a lint-free towel.

#2 Use water-based lubes.
Water-based lubes are completely compatible with all types of sex toys and condoms. Other lubes can cause chemical reactions with some sex toy materials like rubber.

#3 Store your sex toy safely.
Many Women's sex toys are made from silicone, which can be damaged by coming into contact with certain types of sex toy materials. Keep your women's sex toy in its own storage bag in a cool place, and you'll be playing together for years to come!

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