Learn how you can make your wildest fantasies come true with a realistic dildo! This educational article is filled with tips & tricks for getting the most pleasure possible out of these lifelike sex toys.

How to Use a Realistic Dildo

Dildos come in a wide variety of colors, sizes and vaguely phallic shapes. Realistic dildos, however, aren’t just shaped a little like a penis. These specialized sex toys are designed to look and feel as lifelike as possible. Some of them are so realistic that you might mistake them for the real thing!

You can find dildos with balls, veins, and realistic heads. There are even squirting dildos that deliver a realistic load. These sex toys open up new opportunities for pleasure. Here you’ll find some tips and techniques to get the most out of using your lifelike dildo:

person holding Adam's True Feel Dildo, a realistic dildo
  1. Just the tip. Since these type of toys mimic a life-like shaped penis, inserting just the tip can be extremely satisfying. Especially since the G-Spot on a woman is located just a few inches inside the vagina along the upper wall. Pop in the head and use an up and down motion or swirl that tip around. (This also works for stimulating the prostate in men as well.) You can also use the tip to rub your nipples and clitoris.

  2. Going in deep. Like people, realistic dildos come in all sizes. So, if you’re comfortable with the size you’re inserting then go ahead and take it all the way. In addition to thrusting, try twisting or using a circular motion with the dong inside. The life-like features will feel amazing as they give you a thrilling internal massage.

  3. Keep up the pace. You want to start off slow so you can feel every vein and ripple. Then as you become used to the sensations you can go as slow or as fast as you want. Try doing some fast, deep pumps then slowly pull the dong all the way out before diving back in. That way you can feel every detail. The main thing is to find a speed that’s right for you and keep doing it.

  4. Best positions for vaginal. Believe it or not, good old missionary is a great position when it comes to playing with a realistic. By laying on your back and spreading your legs wide, you are opening yourself up to play how you want. Slow, fast, deep, shallow, this position gives you great control over your dildo. Using a realistic with a suction-cup to attach it to the floor or table is perfect for cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, both vaginally and anally.

  5. Best positions for anal. Doggy-style is a natural choice when it comes to anal pleasure. Getting on your knees and reaching back lets you comfortably access your backdoor and play away. Another position is sidesaddle or spooning. This also gives you good control of your toy. When it comes to anal, the most important thing to remember is to use plenty of lube. The anus is not a self-lubricating orifice, so get it nice and slick before you start to play.

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  7. Stick it to me. Many realistics feature a suction-cup base. This provides three ways to use your dildo. You can use the suction cup as a hand-hold to thrust the dildo in an out, stick it to any smooth surface for hands-free play, or it makes the dildo harness compatible if you want to play with a friend.

  8. Fulfill your fantasy. While realistic dongs are great for solo play, you and your partner can use them to spice things up a bit. They can use the dong on you while performing oral or playing with other areas, or for the ultimate thrill it can act as a third partner and allow you to fulfill any double penetration fantasies.

Making a Realistic Dildo

8-inch KingCock Realistic Dildo attached to a strap-on harness worn by a mannequin

Material and shape are the two major factors that separate realistic dildos from all the others. Many realistic dildos are made from a specialized material like Cyberskin or UR3 that’s specifically designed to look and feel like human skin. Realistic dildos made from other materials such as silicone or jelly might use a special dual-density design that features a soft outer layer over a firm inner core to duplicate the feel of a real penis.

When it comes to shape, some sex toy makers hire actual sculptors to make their realistic dildos look natural and anatomically accurate. They might even add hand-painted details such as veins running up and down the shaft to make these dildos look even more lifelike. Other sex toy makers might use penis molds from male porn stars as well as just average guys.

Realistic Dildos & Your Sex Life

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Their lifelike design and versatility are realistic dildos’ biggest benefits. The penis-shaped tip is naturally designed for easy and comfortable penetration. After insertion, the tip can easily be used for stimulation, whether you’re focusing on the G-Spot or the prostate. The raised veins in a realistic dildo help increase your pleasure with every move. And the balls in the base can be used for clitoral stimulation, to support a strap-on harness or as a handle.

Realistic dildos are also designed to appeal to your innermost fantasies. Whether you’re thinking about your favorite actor or the sexy guy next door, a realistic dildo is ideal for bringing your sexual fantasies to life.

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