Keep Your Mate Happy All Month Long!

Whether you can count your time together in months or decades, you can win some serious brownie points with your partner this September, which is Pleasure your Mate month, with this simple ideas.

1. Experiment Tried and true, there’s no better solution for livening up your relationship than a little bit of sexual exploration and experimentation! Start with little things like a bubble bath together or some playful bondage before jumping in the deep end.

2. Fantasy Grab-Bag Sit down with your partner and some paper. Each of you gets to note 30 different treats from activities you can do together to that new blouse or DVD you’ve been eyeing on a scrap of paper. Exchange the treat ideas with your partner, and you’ll have something fun to look forward to each day.

3. Love notes Whether you’re shooting for plain romance or down-n-dirty sexual fantasies, leaving a little love note around the house for your lover to find is a great surprise that will put a smile on his or her face… especially if you act out the note later!

4. Create a Romance Cheat Sheet Obviously, your partner might be a more than a little angry with you if this treatment comes to an abrupt ending when October 1 rolls around. So, it’s important that you take note of which special things in particular really grab his or her imagination and interest. That way, you can make special plans throughout the year and drastically cutting the number of nights you spend sleeping on the couch.

5. Help Out More Around the House Whether it’s doing the dishes or mowing the grass, a helping hand is one of the ultimate aphrodisiacs. Giving your partner a little extra free time not only shows how much you care for them but it also gives the two of you a lot more time to play together!