Introducing Sex Toys to your Bedroom

After the two of you become used to those sex toys, you can start trying something a little more adventurous in the form of vibrators and dildos. It?s best to start with the smaller sex toys that aren?t shaped like a real penis. Many men find the larger realistic vibrators and dildos intimidating, and some might even be secretly afraid they?ll be replaced by your battery operated boyfriend. Make sure you let your man take charge of the vibrator or dildo, telling him what you like and you don?t. And be sure to show him just how thankful you are for his help afterwards. After a few times of this special activity, he?ll be ready to try bigger and better sex toys, even the realistic dildos or vibrators.

Once your partner becomes used to handling sex toys, you can work on encouraging him to try sex toys designed for prostate stimulation. Get him used to anal penetration with your finger. Once he realizes just how stronger prostate stimulation can make his orgasm, he?ll be ready to try some actual anal sex toys for men. Eventually, you might even talk him into trying role reversal with a strap-on dildo and harness ? but you better be patient. Jumping into the deep end too soon is a sure-fired way to scare your guy off.