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<P class=style4><BR><BR><SPAN class="style91 style92">Ask Laura</SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN class=style9><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: italic">Letter of the Month</SPAN><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura</SPAN>,<BR>I am 7 and a half months pregnant. I constantly want sex from my husband, and I am finding myself insatiable! He always gets off before I do, then falls asleep. I am extremely adventurous in the bedroom, and so is he, but once he has popped, he is out. So needless to say I never get off. It gets very frustrating. I have tried having him play with me while we have sex, seeing as how I can no longer reach, but he is way too rough with my clit, and clitoral stimulation is the only way I get off. He is all for introducing more toys into the bedroom. I just need to know what is the best clitoral stimulator that doesn’t make a huge dent in the wallet. Please help me! --Desperate <BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Desperate</SPAN>,<BR>You sound very hot to trot! It’s great that your man is willing to help you out. You may have to coach him a bit on how to touch you properly with his fingers--or better yet, let him hold his hand still while you rub on it just right! He’ll eventually learn. You can also get a vibrator on a wand, so that you can reach around your beautiful belly. I recommend the <A href="adameve.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/sp-g-gasm-delight-g-spot-vibrator-9825.aspx?"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">G-Gasm Delight</SPAN></A>, it’s powerful, affordable, waterproof, and easy to use! If he wants to use the toy on you, try out a simple <SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline"><A href="adameve.com/sp-wascally-wabbit-vibrator-819.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone">Wascally Wabbit</A></SPAN>--he won’t have to thrust it, it will do all the work, and you can adjust around it! You have two options for making sure you “get yours” before he’s out: (1) Make sure he pops earlier, let him recover, and then focus on you; or (2) make sure you get yours first before returning the favor! <BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura</SPAN>,<BR>My boyfriend and I have done a lot of positions and certain costumes but now money is tight and he wants more ideas and stuff to play with. But we don’t have the money to get much! What would you suggest?<BR>--Curious <BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Curious</SPAN>,<BR>I am delighted by your commitment to keeping your sex life hot and fresh! There are plenty of ways to do so without breaking the bank.You say you have costumes, so I hope you explore role-playing--not just dressing up, but acting out your fantasies! A detailed scenario can really supercharge your fantasy and actual sex life! As far as inexpensive things to give you more ideas, what about something as fun as the <A href="adameve.com/sp-sex-casino-game-11773.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Sex Casino Game</SPAN></A>? It’s got 25 different games in it--nearly endless fun! <BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura</SPAN>,<BR>I first had sex when I was 23 years old, and I really really enjoyed it because the woman I was with snuck her anal dildo up my butt. It was amazing, and I loved every bit of it. But my question is why don’t I climax when I am having normal sex, without the use of any anal devices? It seems that I can only enjoy the sex and climax when I have an anal toy. I can’t seem to find a girl who will take the pleasure of doing that for me. I recently got dumped by my girlfriend because I asked her to stick her vibrator up my butt, and she refused. My second question is, how do I find a girl who will share that kind of kink with me? Please let me know. --Bizarre Bucko<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Bucko</SPAN>,<BR>You are getting the thrill of prostate stimulation with anal vibrators, and that does pack a powerful wallop with your orgasm. I’m notsure why you don’t climax with normal sex. My guess is that you’re so used to having anal stimulation that you haven’t taken the tim to sensitize your penis to more “standard” pursuits. If you can climax during masturbation (without anal stimulation), then you can climax during intercourse, as long as you mentally relax about it, use plenty of lube (including a drop or two inside a condom) to increase sensitivity, and let your sexual energy “build up” for a day or two by not having any stimulation before sex. As far as asking your girlfriend to stick her vibe up your butt--well, that’s not entirely sanitary, my friend. If you’re going to ask someone to do that, it helps to have your own toys, wrapped with a condom for easy cleaning. I recommend the <A href="adameve.com/vibrators/anal-vibrators/sp-waterproof-prostate-massager-9080.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Waterproof Prostate Massager</SPAN></A>, or check out the <A href="adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/sp-rotating-backdoor-beads-6370.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Rotating Backdoor Beads</SPAN></A>. As for getting a girl to share the experience with you, you’ll just have to be honest about what you like, and clear that you’d like to experience it with her. That part of the issue is more about communication than technique.<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura</SPAN>, <BR>My man is very experienced and open to do just about anything when it comes to sex, which is awesome for someone who never really experimented before and is wanting to try new and different things. However I am falling short with trying to come up with new things or ideas to try, and he is not helping with my lack of imagination. I have tried looking for books to help me with this, but there are so many out there that I can’t seem to find one to suit my needs. Is there a book or any ideas that you could recommend for this problem? --Falling Short<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Falling Short</SPAN>,<BR>Okay, first, I want you to relax and chill out! You don’t have to reinvent the Kama Sutra every time you go to bed! There is nothing wrong with a good old fashioned lay now and then. It’s not a contest to see who can contribute the most ideas. As far as trying new things, I suggest role-playing a few fantasies, perhaps with costumes! How about a hot <A href="adameve.com/sp-naughty-school-girl-uniform-8907.aspx?"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Naughty School Girl Uniform</SPAN></A>? For a book, which you specifically asked for, I recommend the Complete <A href="adameve.com/sexy-extras/books-cds/sp-complete-manual-of-sexual-positions-1083.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Manual of Sexual Positions</SPAN></A> for a wide range of hot ideas.<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura</SPAN>, <BR>Here’s a topic I would like you to touch on: a strap-on dildo for those who medically cannot produce an erection. I purchased a strap-on and was well satisfied--so is my wife! Carefully chosen, this is a great solution. With the right dildo, she will be left satisfied, not sore, and will want more. It left me with the satisfaction of giving her what she needed and wanted. At first my wife was not sure, and neither was I. When I put it on, she thought it might be too much. I lubed it up, and her also, got it in her completely, let her get used to it, and pumped slowly. After a couple of minutes I had total control of seducing her and tried several positions and wow! This is a great technique for those who has medical problems of getting a hard on and pleasing a woman at the same time. My advice for customers: be open-minded and willing. You’ll be amazed! We thought sex was great in our 20s, but in our 50s we think it’s even better! Thanks, --K<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear K</SPAN>,<BR>I couldn’t have said it better myself! Thanks for educating all my readers about your delightful experience with strap-ons! For those who are curious to try them, Check out the <A href="adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-eves-harness-strap-on-kit-9888.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Eve’s Harness Strap-On Kit</SPAN></A>, which has an easly adjustable harness with two different dongs. There’s also the <A href="adameve.com/sp-jelly-power-cock-strap-on-3926.aspx?sc=NEWSH08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSH08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Jelly Power Cock Strap-On</SPAN></A>, which includes a vibrator for even more fun! </SPAN><BR><BR><BR></P>
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