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<DIV align=left><BR><BR>Ask Laura </SPAN></DIV>
<P class=style9 align=left><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura, </SPAN><BR>Dear Laura, I am a bisexual woman and my husband and I have been talking about trying the bi thing. Any helpful hints for him to help him explore? We reverse-play, and he loves it but wants to try the real thing. I would love to see him with another man and find myself masturbating to the thought of being with a bi couple.<BR>--Anticipation<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Anticipation, </SPAN><BR>Before you begin any interaction with other people, you will need to spend some time communicating. It can be jarring to go from hot fantasy to real life! It can be hard for the real thing to live up to the fantasy, and some talking about guidelines can be helpful--do you want to approach someone you know? Go to a swingers event? Advertise in the paper? Practice safe sex? How far do you want things to go? Decide these things ahead of time with your husband. Then watch some terrific Nina Hartley DVDs that will help: her <A href="adameve.com/DVD-and-Video/Nina-Hartley/sp-nina-hartley146s-guide-to-swinging-2733.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Guide to Swinging</SPAN></A> and <A href="adameve.com/DVD-and-Video/How-To/sp-ninas-guide-to-threesomes-girl-girl-boy-8904.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Guide to Threesomes</SPAN></A> (2 Girls and a Guy) are a terrific start. You could also check out some bisexual-themed adult films to get some ideas: Check out <A href="adameve.com/DVD-and-Video/Bisexual/sp-fine-bi-me-8052.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Fine Bi Me</SPAN></A> and the <A href="adameve.com/DVD-and-Video/Bisexual/sp-the-bi-apple-dvd-11551.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Bi Apple</SPAN></A>.<BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><BR>Dear Laura, </SPAN><BR>Dear Laura, Does Adam & Eve have any nipple rings? My nipples are a very inverted, and I would like to dress them up! Do you have any kind of jewelry I could put on them without the pain or infection? Also what about rings for the clit--not real, just something like an illusion? --<SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: italic">Perky</SPAN><BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Perky, </SPAN><BR>You’ve come to the right place! Adam & Eve has some fantastic nipple (and clit) jewelry without the fuss of piercing! First, you might want to try some nipple stimulation to harden them before putting on the jewelry. For that, try the <A href="adameve.com/womens-adult-sex-toys/Nipple-Toys/sp-nipple-teasers-12617.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Nipple Teasers</SPAN></A> or the fabulous and <A href="adameve.com/Adult-Sex-Toys/Nipple-Toys/sp-vibrating-nipple-clamps-4229.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Vibrating Nipple Clamps</SPAN></A>. Then, slip on our <A href="adameve.com/Lingerie/Jewelry/sp-gold-nipple-rings-2832.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Gold Nipple Rings</SPAN></A>, which are adjustable for a custom fit. For extra fun, try <A href="adameve.com/Lingerie/Jewelry/sp-twinkles-11935.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Twinkles</SPAN></A> which go around your nipples are non-piercing. For your clit, go for the <A href="adameve.com/Novelties-and-Fun-Stuff/Jewelry/sp-cleopatra-clitoral-jewelry-2831.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Cleopatra Clitoral Jewelry</SPAN></A>. It sits just inside the clitoral hood, and when you move, the stimulation can get you hot, hot, hot! <BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura, </SPAN><BR>The guy I am seeing is great in bed, but he can't last more than about 5 minutes when we go the first time. Then, it takes half an hour to an hour for him to be able to go again. How can I help him last a little longer, so that we can both enjoy it? He is very embarrassed by it, but I have told him it doesn't bother me that much. Please give us some tips. --Momma Nymph<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Momma Nymph, </SPAN><BR>There are many ways to help a man last longer and prolong the ecstasy for both of you! To begin with, he could try masturbating before you come together the first time. You could desensitize him a little bit so that he’s not so hot off the trigger--a condom will take the edge off, as will our fabulous <A href="adameve.com/sex-lubricants/Stay-Hard-Sex-Lubes/sp-adam-eve-delay-spray-2769.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">A&E Delay Spray</SPAN></A>. Using a cock ring (check out the <A href="adameve.com/Adult-Sex-Toys/Cock-Rings/sp-black-tri-rings-7075.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Black Tri-Rings</SPAN></A>) will also help delay his orgasm. And keep this in mind: You don’t have to have a hard penis to be sexual. There are lots of things you could do while he gets it up again! Get creative with fingers, tongues, and lips, and you might find whole new ways to experience pleasure!<BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Laura, </SPAN><BR>I am a connoisseur of sex. I think it's God's greatest creation. However, my fiance is not huge fan. He used to be; when we were 19 and 20, he loved it. Now he is 25 and he doesn't care how often, if ever, we have sex. I need help! I am dying over here! What do you suggest to get his libido jumping? --<SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: italic">Hot & Heavy <BR></SPAN><BR><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">Dear Hot & Heavy, </SPAN><BR>This is a common problem for couples--a disconnect in levels of desire. There are some fun things you can try to jump-start his libido, but frankly, none of them are guaranteed. I recommend trying out some pheromones on yourself, which can be a secret weapon to get him in the mood! Check out <A href="adameve.com/sex-lubricants/Sex-Lotions/sp-climax-x-factor-for-her-11101.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Climax X Factor</SPAN></A> or <A href="adameve.com/Sexy-Extras/Cologne/sp-diva-dust-shimmery-body-powder-12488.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Diva Dust Shimmery Body Powder</SPAN></A> with a secret honey and pheromone fragrance that will drive him wild! You can also watch a super-hot adult film (check out <A href="adameve.com/DVD-and-Video/Adam-and-Eve-Pictures/sp-eden-12080.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Eden</SPAN></A>!) or role-play a hot fantasy, complete with costumes. Your best bet is to sit down and talk with him about your frustration--ask him directly what it would take to get him in the mood. And don’t be afraid to see to your own pleasure with a terrific toy like the <A href="adameve.com/Vibrators/Rabbit-Vibrators/sp-wild-g-spot-vibrator-11417.aspx?sc=NEWSD08T&cm_mmc=Email-_-Buyer-_-NEWSD08T-_-Zone"><SPAN style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">Wild G-Spot Vibrator</SPAN></A>.<BR><BR></P>