Sex Position of the Month (Continued):
The Lovers' Vine

Combining the best of doggy and missionary, this position is destined to become a favorite! Start with the woman lying on her side, propped up on her arm. The man then cuddles up to her from behind. She can squeeze or open her legs as needed for a tighter fit or easier access. The close contact promotes increased intimacy while also making it easier to stimulate other hot spots like your partner's nipples during sex as well.

A&E's Resident Sex Expert: Dr. Kat (Continued)

Your questions answered Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a board certified Clinical Sexologist and licensed Marriage Therapist. This month's question is…

Q&A: Why do women sex it up for Halloween?

Dear Dr. Kat,

My girlfriend always wants to wear the sluttiest Halloween costumes. We get in a fight every year about what she's going to wear. What gives?

Thank you,
Taylor

Dear Taylor,

Good question. Why do women dress so provocatively on Halloween? Why not other days? Halloween is usually the one time a year that people feel they have permission to either be someone else or play up a side of their personality they are usually inhibited about. I believe that women in particular repress much of their sexuality. There is just too much pressure to conform the rest of the year. So when given the chance to dress provocatively with less judgment on Halloween, they do.

Whether it's the "sexy referee" or "sexy vampire", I think these women are looking for a variety of ways to express themselves sexually, especially by taking traditionally masculine roles/costumes and putting a sensual twist on them.

A costume on its own doesn't give a whole lot of insight into the inner workings of anyone. You don't have to worry about taking it too literally. It doesn't mean she wants to slut it up in real life. And even if she did, why not find a way to support and celebrate her expression? Maybe you should be looking more at your own insecurities versus being concerned about her.

Sincerely,

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Turn Sexy Scares Into Foreplay! (Continued)

Scary movies actually cause your brain to release dopamine and serotonin, which increase your overall arousal level. This makes scary movies the perfect inspiration for a night of passion… especially if you combine them with an adult movie! Check out our Top 5 Scary and Sexy Movies for an extra-fun treat this month.

5. Buffy the Vampire Slayer XXX
While this one isn't much of a horror movie, it does include some sexy male vampires to appeal to all those Twilight fans out there.

4. Scream XXX
When a strange voice on the phone asks if you like sexy movies, get ready to run!

3. This Ain't Jaws XXX
A heroic and horny trio hunts down a ferocious shark with an appetite for babes in bikinis.

2. Grindhouse XXX
This special double feature actually includes two movies - a horror movie about a crazed killer terrorizing a summer camp and an action-packed thriller about a trained assassin trying to rescue her missing girlfriend.

1. Wet Dream on Elm Street
Imagine Freddy stalking your naughty dreams instead of your nightmares. Need we say more?

Halloween Harlot? Or All-Year Kink? (Continued)

Somewhere in recent history Halloween has morphed from costumed neighborhood children begging for treats to adults exposing their throbbing libidos in public.

While it may seem it's not as safe as it used to be for kids to roam freely seeking candy, there seems to be more safe places for grown-ups to let their erotic hair down. Funny, right?

This article is about what the big kids are doing this Halloween.

If you're looking for costumes like the Naughty School Girl (18+) Uniform, just make sure you know in advance the kind of Halloween party you're attending. Check in with your host or hostess first. Many dramatically abbreviated costumes can be rendered more public-friendly with the addition of panty-hose or other fleshy looking layers.

Arguably, a costume like our French Maid, Nurse Feel Good, Naughty Nurse or Very Private Secretary don't show any more skin than a good skimpy bikini. It's all about knowing yourself and the situation you'll be in. It probably wouldn't hurt to have a long raincoat ready, just in case. It could make for a good dramatic entrance as you "flash" your friends!

Some costumes are very sexy and suggestive, without showing off your family jewels (unless you're into that sort of thing, of course). S.W.A.T. Police, Naughty Service Maid, Foul Play Referee, Saddle Up Cowgirl, and Native Beauty do a pretty good job of keeping you off of the tabloid websites.

Accessorize a costume you already have with an identity-changing wig and sunglasses. Who cares, if no one knows it's you, right? Speaking of hidden identity, add a Fantasy Masquerade Mask and you can practically show up in little more than a Spanky Skirt, Sexy Seduction Gloves, and Alluring Kitten Tights.

And the great thing about adult Halloween costumes is that you can bring them out again -- and again! To seduce your lover, or to smooth over a petty dispute like wrecking the family car. That last one actually works more than people like to admit!

And then there's always…Mardi Gras!

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