A&E's Resident Sex Expert CONTINUED

There are no hard and fast rules. You can begin a scene just to become aroused and then let it go to become more yourself again during sex or you can play it all the way through. The main thing is for you and your partner to agree upon a scene that you find arousing. If you can't agree, then take turns. Choose a scenario that is familiar so that you will both feel comfortable. Here are some suggestions:
• Professor/student
• Handyman/stay at home mom
• Masseuse/client
• Escort/client
• Mistress/slave
• Movie scenes ala Fifty Shades of Grey

A little chuckle here and there is normal. After all, you are both seeing one another like you never have. Decide to stick it out and don't give up. Commit to doing it for 15 minutes if by the end it just doesn't feel right for either of you, perhaps try doing something else, but if it does work the action will probably go on a lot longer to the desired conclusion - if you know what I mean.

Don't feel like you need to have every known prop to man. Heck, you don't even have to dress the part. The imagination goes a long way. Just relax into it and see what happens. The only thing you need is an open mind.

Don't think of it as a performance. Just try to connect with one another. Trust that the dialogue will just come to you if you can get over the first couple of opening lines. It's ok to be nervous. A little bit of nerves just adds to the overall excitement and spontaneity.

After the fact, you can talk about what really worked for you and what didn't and what you may do next time. If it makes the both of you feel more secure, decide not to share this tryst with others. Keeping this private may not only give you permission to have less inhibitions about your role-playing but it may also create a little titillation by making it all the more taboo.

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

5 Amazing Things Everyone Needs to Know About the Clitoris! CONTINUED

4. The clitoris is like an iceberg. No, it's not cold and it wouldn't cause a boat to crash, but there is definitely more than meets the eye. Many people believe that the clitoris is a simple little organ on the outside of the vagina, but the clitoris actually takes up a large portion of the vaginal structure. In fact, the clitoral head and hood is only about a quarter of the entire thing.

5. Many people believe that the clitoris is the female counterpart to the male penis. However, the clitoris actually came first. You see, when it comes to the miracle of life, everybody starts out with something that resembles a clitoris - and depending on which way the wind is blowing, the clitoris can either bloom into a penis or stay the way it is. The rest is history, or biology, as they say.

When it comes down to it, the clitoris is a powerful organ - an organ that should be paid closer attention to. These days it's all about the g-spot, but we should never forget the clit. By appreciating the clitoris, both men and women can enjoy sex more. Also, women can feel more pleasure and confidence in bed, which can in turn make the man feel more confident too - all the right ingredients for a healthy sexual experience and sex life.

Why Are Witches So Sexy? CONTINUED

Drinking a witches brew can really upset your tummy. So is there another way to ingest it? Membranes under the armpits, inside the anus and vagina are well-suited for this.

"But the vulgar believe, and the witches confess, that on certain days or nights they anoint a staff and ride on it to the appointed place or anoint themselves under the arms and in other hairy places."
-- Dominican theologian Jordanes de Bergamo, 15th century

Once applied, a witch would certainly be "flying" -- "tripping balls," in fact. The effects of this tropane alkaloid was described in 1966 by writer Gustav Schenk this way:

"Each part of my body seemed to be going off on its own, and I was seized with the fear that I was falling apart. At the same time I experienced an intoxicating sensation of flying. I soared where my hallucinations - the clouds, the lowering sky, herds of beasts, falling leaves...billowing streamers of steam and rivers of molten metal - were swirling along."

There was a time when women taking their self-pleasure as they please threatened the social order. Many were tortured or killed for what is to us in 2014, just some harmless self-pleasuring.

So have a glass of wine, turn down the lights a little, put some lube on your favorite sex toy and in the words of accused witch Antoine Rosé of Scotland: "Go, in the name of the devil, go!"

-- Compiled from various reports

The Legend of The Haunted Vibrator! CONTINUED

Amanda held her breath as the ghostly figure rubbed the vibrator against her pale pussy, probing her clit gently with the tip before slowly sliding it inside. She watched the tip of the vibrator slide inside the ghost's translucent body until the rabbit ears started tickling and teasing her clit. The ghost was now whimpering and panting, her body twisting and jerking all over the body. Much to her surprise, Amanda started to feel a little jealous that some ghost was using her vibrator instead of her! And then she heard the ghost give off a loud gasp, before going completely limp on the bed.

Amanda started snickering as she wondered what kind of wet spot a ghostly orgasm would leave in her bed. Then the ghost, either hearing her or feeling Amanda's eyes on her nude body, looked up and finally noticed Amanda watching her. She turned slightly pink, a ghostly blush, before vanishing completely - leaving the vibrator lying behind on the bed. And Amanda wondered if she would have to wait until next Halloween for her ghostly friend to visit again.

Editor's Note: All of Adam and Eve's vibrators and sex toys are certified ghost free.