Take spooning to the next level by adding backdoor penetration! Combining the intimate and hands-on nature of spooning with the taboo thrill of anal, this sex position is sure to be a favorite!
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new
Pros & Cons
+ Great for slow and sensual intercourse
+ Large amount of skin-to-skin contact builds intimacy
– Requires extensive preparation for safe anal penetration
– Some people just don't like or aren't comfortable with anal sex
Anal sex requires a lot more preparation than regular sex. Make sure you're clean and that you've got plenty of lube on hand before trying it. Using a small butt plug or other anal sex toy beforehand is a great way to warm up.
Once you've finished making your preparations, start with the woman lying on her side. The male cuddles up behind her while facing the same direction. She should lift her top leg slightly to give him easier access to her backdoor. You could also place a small pillow between her legs if holding it up proves too difficult. After he's entered your backdoor, the two of you can slowly thrust and grind on each other as he holds you close with his arms. As with any form of anal play, be sure to stop immediately if you feel any pain or discomfort.