Okay, men. Here's the sad truth about the matter — most guys are really bad at eating girls out. It's not that they don't want to, but many are fail to understand a key point: women are different than men. While guys are happy with almost any sexual contact, women are generally more nuanced with their desires. Men often think that going straight downtown and furiously licking is going to send her to the moon every time, but there's a whole lot more to it than that.
The silver lining here is that with so many guys failing to make the grade, becoming a master at tickling her velvet will make you a god among men. These tips will help you do just that.
Your tongue isn't your penis.
Going down on her is a completely different act, so you don't want to use the same techniques you'd use during sex. Thrusting your tongue in and out of her vagina will get you the boot faster than you can say "mustache ride."
Mix it up.
Just like dancing, doing the same move over and over again is just going to make you look silly. Your tongue is incredibly versatile — change pressures, vary your tongue's shape and try different motions to bring her to the brink.
Forget the goal for a second.
While this area has the highest concentration of nerve endings, she has so many other sensitive parts that can make her crazy. Use your hands to play with her breasts, kiss her inner thighs and give some attention to her lips (yeah, the ones down south).
Women like oral too.
Just not the way you're thinking of. Sucking on her and blowing when it's wet can provide new sensations that will have her writhing in ecstasy.
Be enthusiastic.
Women don't want you to treat this like a chore. Banish the thoughts that this will lead to more sex and get into a mindset that her pleasure is your ultimate goal.
Most of all, know this: every woman is different. To be great at going down on your her, you'll need to respond to her needs, be willing to fail and get lots and lots of practice. Do that, and you'll rock her world.
