Simple enough that anyone can do them, these oral sex tips for men and women are a great way to spice up your love life!
Use All Your Assets
Good oral requires good stimulation – preferably from multiple sources at the same time. While your tongue focuses on your partner’s most sensitive bit (i.e. the tip of his penis or her clit), remember to use your hands too. If your partner’s female, you could finger her, play with her breasts or tease her backdoor… and that’s just for starters. If your partner’s male, then you could play with his balls, stroke his inner thigh, and pump his shaft, and much more!
Do Donuts With Your Tongue
Moving your tongue in a circular motion is a fundamental oral sex move whether you’re giving a blowjob or going down on a lucky lady. Tongue circles are just effective on the tip of his penis as they are on her clit. And they’re so easy to do, they’re almost instinctual!
Listen & Respond to Your Partner
Your partner knows what they like and what feels good, so it’s vital that you pay attention to them. If they like what you’re doing, then keep doing it. If they don’t like whatever you’re doing, then stop doing it. It might sound simple, but it’s advice all too many people ignore.
Vary Speed & Pressure
Variety is the spice of life, and the same applies to oral sex. Changing tempo keeps things new and exciting, especially after you’ve been together a while.
Add Enthusiasm & Energy
The Double Es are important whether you’re giving or receiving oral. No one wants to be with a partner who gets bored. That’s just a recipe for an unhappy relationship and unsatisfying sex. Adding excitement and passion to your oral experience when you’re on the receiving end will show how much you appreciate your partner’s hard work. It might even encourage them to work even harder. And a little enthusiasm and energy on the giving end just makes your partner enjoy it even more.
Factor in Some Butt Play
The taboo thrill of butt play can sometimes be all it takes to make your partner explode. Whether you use a finger or a tongue, a quick little trip down the backdoor is the sexual equivalent to “shock and awe.”
Keep Going After the Big O
Just because your partner climaxed, doesn’t mean you should stop licking. While some people get super-sensitive after hitting the Big O, others get more lazy and relaxed. If your lover’s in the later camp, there’s a good chance they can experience multiple Os if you keep going. And even if they can’t, it could still feel good!
