Curious about prostate play? There are ton of different ways you can stimulate your guy’s prostate, including specialized vibrators, backdoor toys and even your pinky finger. But before you buy the biggest anal dildo you can find, it’s best to start out with something small and work your way up.
Selling Prostate Play
Your biggest challenge isn’t finding the prostate or even teasing it. It’s talking your guy into trying prostate play! There are a lot of social taboos about heterosexual males engaging in any form of anal play. While many guys realize just how dated those beliefs are, they’re still not completely comfortable with it. If you want to work his prostate, you’ll need to win him over. Emphasize how prostate play can enhance his pleasure by making his orgasm feel stronger and last longer. Maybe promise to do something special for him later if he’ll let you try this.
Finding the Prostate
If you want to stimulate his prostate, then you’ve got to know where it is. The prostate presses against his rectum, so the best way to reach it is through his backdoor. Start by adding a lot of lube to your finger and your partner’s rear. Then curl your finger into a small hook. Insert it about two inches deep with the tip pointing down. Gently move the tip around in a small circle. You’ll know you’ve found it when your guy starts moaning!
When you’re just getting started with prostate play, it’s best to stick with just a finger or two to give your guy time to adjust. Once you’ve found the prostate, you can experiment with different forms of stimulation. You could massage it with your fingers or gently knock on it to see what your guy likes best. Try incorporating a little prostate fun into your bedroom routine. Imagine the look on your guy’s face if you slip a finger up there while giving him head. Just be careful where he’s aiming – the shock might set him off and you don’t want to get an eyeful!
When you’re ready to move on from fingers, Adam & Eve offers a wide range of prostate toys. These toys are ergonomically shaped for a comfortable fit while making his prostate easy to find and even easier to please. More advanced users should try a prostate vibrator too. The extra stimulation will leave your guy erupting extra hard!
Advanced Prostate Play
If your guy’s open minded and really into prostate play, you might want to try role reversal or pegging. This involves you slipping on a special harness that allows you to wear and use a dildo like a real penis. You can give your man a taste of his own medicine while teasing his prostate at the same time!