Wand massagers are some of the strongest vibrators you can buy. But all that power does come with a price. Learn everything you need to know about wand massagers and how they compare to other vibrators.

How to Use a Vibrating Wand

When it comes to raw power, it’s hard to find another vibrator that can compare to a wand massager. These specialized vibrators feature heavy-duty motors with super-charged vibrations to match. Some wand massagers are strong enough to literally rock your world… as well as your bed!

What Is A Wand Massager

Adam & Eve Magic Massager Deluxe 8x

Wand massagers are powerful vibrators designed for external stimulation. They have a tapered handle and flexible, rounded tip that delivers waves of pleasure to the clitoris and other erogenous zones. While some wands need to be plugged into an electrical outlet due to their strength, many newer models use rechargeable batteries instead for extra portability.

Vibrating wands look nothing like your typical sex toy. Their discreet design allows you to hide them easily in the bathroom, blending in perfectly with your hair dryer, electric razor, hair curler and other similar appliances.

Tips For Using A Vibrating Wand Massager

When it comes to soothing sore muscles or working knots out, some wand massagers work even better than mainstream ones. And while they feel amazing on your neck and back, imagine just how good those sexy vibrations will feel on your nipples or clitoris. So if you’re looking to make the most out of your wand experience, here are some tips to get you started:

  1. Wand massagers do make noise, so you may want to pick a private place where you won’t be disturbed and get comfortable.

  2. Start out on the lowest setting and run the wand along your body to see how it feels. Try other erogenous zones like the nipples or inner thighs, varying the pressure and speeds until you find a setting that feels amazing. You will also get a better understanding on how to maneuver the wand and place the vibrations right where you want them.

  3. Since wands are so powerful, you may want to use a towel or piece of fabric as a barrier before using in on your clitoris for the first time. As you gain more experience you can work your way up to different functions and speeds.

  4. Use the wand near your clit at first and keep it moving. Because of the intensity, it may be too strong to place it directly on your love bud and keep it there. Again, you will learn what feels right for your body as you use the wand more and more.

  5. Think about adding attachments to change things up. Just remember to use lube and to add a few drops to the head of the wand to make removing the attachment easier.

  6. If you think wands are just for women think again. Guys can enjoy the vibrations by having the wand lightly graze their shaft and scrotum, or having it placed against the outside of the anus.

  7. And you can also both enjoy a perineum massage. This is the often-forgotten spot between the vagina and anus, or the scrotum and anus. Lightly pressing against this area can produce intense pleasure and may even externally stimulate the prostate in men causing them to have an orgasm.

Are Wand Massagers Right For Everyone?

As great as wands sound, there are some things to consider before using one.

First, wand massagers are intended for external use only. This means you can use wands for clitoral or other erogenous zone stimulation, but you’re out of luck if you’re interested in G-Spot or vaginal stimulation. However, there are some specialized attachments that work with your wand massager to give you that internal satisfaction.

Second, wand massagers can only focus on one erogenous zone at a time. Some women will still have a harder time reaching an O with a wand than with their trusty rabbit vibe, which targets multiple erogenous zones at the same time. But the sheer power of a wand massager can partially make up for this disadvantage.

Third, wand massagers are so much stronger than your typical vibrator, so you need to start out slowly, especially if you’re new to wand play. Some beginners underestimate how powerful wands can be and either use the wand too long and find that it feels uncomfortable or press it too hard against their body and temporarily numb their clit. That’s why it’s important to try it out on other areas of your body and work your way up to buzzing those hot spots, so you get the most comfortable and satisfying experience.

Our Favorite Vibrating Wands

With all the different wand massagers to pick from, it can be challenging to find the best one for you. We talked with Adam & Eve's merchandisers to help narrow down the field. They've got decades of experience when it comes to sex toys, so they know what to look for in a wand. Here are the ones they use at home:

Magic Wand Original

Magic Wand Original

With over 100,000 sold, it’s no wonder this powerhouse is a staple in the bedroom. One of the best features of the Magic Wand is its discreet appearance and dual use. It looks just like your typical neck or back massager. And in fact, that's exactly how many people use theirs. As you glide the deep, soothing vibrations over your partner’s body or your own, you’ll also realize the Magic Wand is just as great for working out kinks as it is for satisfying them. It's extremely durable for long-lasting pleasure. Since it's electric-powered, it feels just as strong and mind-blowingly intense at the end of the night as the beginning!

Adam & Eve Intimate Curves Rechargeable Wand

Adam & Eve Intimate Curves Rechargeable Wand

Pretty and petite, the Intimate Curves Rechargeable Wand is perfectly sized to fit comfortably in your hand – no matter how fast, hard, or long your pleasure session lasts. It’s so power-packed with 10 vibration modes, you might never want to leave the bedroom again. It's waterproof for fun in the shower and easy cleaning. And it's rechargeable, so you you're tied down with a cord. It can run up to 3 hours, but there's no way you'll be able to last that long!

Satisfyer Wand-Er Woman Wand

Satisfyer Wand-Er Woman Wand

Want full-strength size, full-strength power, and with the freedom of going cordless? It’s all here in the luxurious and super-powerful Wand-er Woman Wand Massager. Satisfyer packed all the shake-you-down-to-your-toes vibrations you’d find in plug-in massagers into a sleek and sexy wand with 50 play combinations.


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