Perfect for long-distance relationships, dominating subs and kinky thrills, sex toy apps are exploding in popularity. Find out everything you need to know about how they work and what they can do.

Your Guide to App-Enabled Sex Toys

Sex toys are a fantastic way to explore what makes you feel good and get in touch with your body. They’re also perfect to add to couple’s play allowing you to share in the intimacy and bring you closer together. But what if it’s the middle of the night (or day), you’re feeling horny, and your partner isn’t there or you’re in a long-distance relationship? Just what can you do to experience that shared sense of intimacy and sexual satisfaction? Enter technology to the rescue.

These days it’s all about high-tech, app-enabled sex toys. They’re the perfect way to connect and keep that romantic spark going, especially if you’re looking for a long-distance relationship toy. Forget the days of fumbling with buttons or trying to reinvent your favorite vibration patterns. Just sync the toy, or in some cases the remote, to your smart device or phone and take your pleasure to the next level. You can customize and create all new types of sensations, or easily access your favorites. Better yet, connect it to your partner’s phone and let them control the fun from across the room, across the country, or even across the world.

Our Hottest App-Enabled Toys

Whether you’re looking to spice up your solo sessions, make couple’s play more exciting, or find the perfect app-inspired long-distance relationship toy, we’ve got you covered. Here are just some of our favorite app-enabled sex toys:

1. OhMiBod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator

Ohmibod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator

Picture your lover controlling this vibrator from several time zones away as you lay there wondering what’s going to happen next.

Simply wear your Ohmibod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator and feel your G-Spot come alive. Bluetooth®-enabled for app-controlled play, you can engage with your lover from across the room or across the world. It also comes with a manual mode or a remote control that works up to 26 feet away.

“My boyfriend lives 5 hours away in another state and was able to control it from his phone through the app! So surprised that this works and really spices things up from afar.” –Kk13

2. OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.Oh!

OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.Oh!

Rock out like never before with this wireless remote vibrator that can be powered by the latest hot dance track! Designed for naughty fun in public, the OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.Oh! comes with a sexy black thong. Just slip the vibrator inside the thong’s special pouch and get ready for a wild night of dining, dancing and more. Start out the night by using the remote control. You can tease your lover with 5 different vibration speeds and patterns up to 20 feet away.

Then when you hit the night club, you can set the vibrator to work off of sound. The vibrations are keyed to the overall volume of the music, so find something loud with a strong beat to really set the vibrator off.

“This thing is AWESOME! I couldn't wait for it to come and it showed up on a Friday--which is date night. This made date night a LOT more fun.” –Russ

3. We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Couples Set

We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Couples Set

This couple’s set will have both of you moaning for more whether you are alone or together. Women are sure to love the flexible shaft and multi-gasmic design of the Nova 2 rabbit vibrator. Men will go crazy for the erection-boosting benefits of the Pivot penis ring. And you’ll both love teasing and pleasing each other with all those bed-shaking vibrations thanks to the We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Couples Set.

“Both products are great! Powerful vibration and the phone connection is great. My partner and I both love the joint play functionality.” –Orion

4. We-Vibe Vector

We-Vibe Vector

Keep those intense prostate ‘gasms coming with over 100 possible vibration settings, a pair of whisper-quiet motors, a customizable shaft, and an extremely versatile design. The included remote control allows you to effortlessly switch from one setting to another without removing the We-Vibe Vector. Plus, you can give the remote to your partner and let them call the shots from several feet away or use the We-Connect app to control the vibrator from the other side of the world.

“First toy of its type for my own use. And I'm absolutely addicted. I'm a straight married man and all I can say is this has changed our sex life.” –NE1NE1

5. Love Distance Reach App Controlled Wearable Butterfly

Love Distance Reach App Controlled Wearable Butterfly

Distance may separate you, but this wild rechargeable butterfly vibrator and its app can let you play together any time! The wearable vibe’s contours fit right against your body for maximum clitoral contact. The included harness straps keep the Love Distance Reach App Controlled Wearable Butterfly in place hands-free, so you can slip it underneath clothes for totally discreet and sexy fun.

The app also lets you connect with your favorite playmate, so you can hand over control of the vibration for naughty surprise sensation games. Let them give you a buzz while they pretend to be a stranger across the room. Or let them control the vibes from anywhere else in the world. The secure app includes video and chat options, so you can play privately long-distance, too.

“I wore this to the grocery store and let my lover take control with the app. I almost had an orgasm in the frozen food section.” –Satisfied Customer

6. Satisfyer Curvy 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator

Satisfyer Curvy 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator

By combining waves of air pressure with intense vibrations, this stimulator feels – and works – your clit like magic.

While the Satisfyer Curvy 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator can be controlled directly, the free, award-winning app expands your options for even more fun. The Satisfyer App, available on both iOS and Android, turns your mobile device into a remote – allowing you or your partner to take control from miles away. Just imagine how much fun you could have on a video chat! The app also gives you access to even more stimulation modes. You could design your own vibration pattern or control it directly. There’s even a special sound-activated mode for rhythmic vibrations, giving you the perfect excuse for rocking out to your favorite songs.

“I had read about these air pulse stimulators, and had to see if they were for real. My wife had a preconceived notion of what to expect, but was surprised at how much more effective it was than a typical vibrator.” –WackDaddy

What Do Sex Toy Apps Actually Do?

While sex toy apps don’t come with a magical orgasm button yet, they do control your vibrator or sex machine just like a regular remote. But they can do a lot more than just that!

Sex toy apps really stand out in two different ways. Remote controls can work from 20-30 feet away at most. But Internet-based apps can control your toy from almost anywhere – even the other side of the world. This makes them ideal for long-distance relationships. Even though you’re miles apart, you can still “virtually” touch your partner and leave them moaning and groaning!

This ability to control your vibrator makes sex toy apps perfect for kinky thrills. Just imagine how fun date night could be with your partner wearing an app-enabled vibrator while you control it from your smartphone… or vice versa! And if you’re into BDSM, it’s a great way for doms to control their subs.

Sex toy apps are much more versatile than a remote control. Some sex toy apps allow you to design & save your own vibration patterns for customized stimulation. You might even be able to create a vibration “playlist” featuring your favorite modes in a particular order. Other apps focus on connectivity, allowing you to video-chat with your partner while controlling and using their toys.

Sex toy apps are a great way for people to come together… in more ways than one!

How Do Sex Toy Apps Work?

Generally speaking, app-enabled sex toys connect to your smart device via Bluetooth or something similar. You can pair your toy and device for additional security. Then you can use your device to control your toy.

Are Sex Toy Apps Safe to Use?

Sex toy apps are no more risky or dangerous than any other app as long as you take proper precautions. Only use official apps from trusted sources along with a strong, unique password.

Where Can I Find App-Enabled Sex Toys?

You can see them all here. Most are made by either We-Vibe, Love Distance, or Ohmibod, manufacturers known for their cutting-edge technology. But several others have apps in the developmental stages, so keep checking. It’s only a matter of time before your favorite sex toy gets its own app!


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