Adam & Eve's Monthly Newsletter - July 2015 (Continued)

Sex Position of the Month (Continued):
Holding Hands Sex Position

A variety of missionary, this position is designed to maximize skin contact and intimacy. Start with the man lying flat on his back with his arms stretched out. She lies down on top of him with her arms outstretched and holding his hands. She can use her feet to push herself up and down along her lover's body, almost like a Nuru massage. Being on top allows her to set the pace as well, making this position great for those times he needs a break or she wants to share a tender moment.

A&E's Resident Sex Expert: Dr. Kat (Continued)

Your questions answered Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a board certified Clinical Sexologist and licensed Marriage Therapist. This month's question is…

Q&A: Coming Together - Simultaneous Orgasm

Dear Dr. Kat,

My husband have a really great sex life but we can never seem to orgasm together. He lets me come first and then we focus on him. Why can't we seem to pull this off? Are we doing something wrong?

Thank you,
Cici

Dear Cici,

Most of us only have fleeting moments where we quite literally come together — at the same time. Orgasms for each partner can vary due to hormones, positioning, mental activity, etc. Maybe that is why we as a culture so highly value simultaneous orgasms. After all, if you go by how orgasms are portrayed in movies, you'd think we all had simultaneous orgasms. Hence, plenty couples fake orgasms due in part to the pressure we all put on ourselves to perform perfectly in the sack.

So, I'm not going to tell you to jump on the "Come Together" train. I think it is overrated. It's like bad pizza, as far as I'm concerned, having any orgasm is a good thing. Alas, I get many questions about how to "achieve" (ugh, I hate that word) this ultimate sexual experience. So this is my disclaimer, coupled with the idea that it can be fun to experiment with simultaneous orgasm, just don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Try out different positions and incorporate a few tools for the trade. Here are some toys that can help that process.

Toys for Him and Her
These sex toys are made especially for couples, providing pleasure for both partners with penis rings and couple's vibrators that give her more consistent clitoral stimulation with intercourse.

• The Couple's Enhancer Ring is a wireless wonder that slides over his penis, giving him pleasurable pressure and vibrating your clitoris at the same time. Couple Enhancer Ring
• Stash his TV remote and replace it with the Screaming Master Ring and Bullet. These vibrating underwear are great for couples looking for a semi-public thrill, or who want to tease each other in private: He mans the controls; you relish the thrill of anticipation. Screaming O Master Ring Bullet and Panty Set
• Use the We-Vibe to target her G-Spot and give clitoral stimulation all at once. We Vibe Touch
• Slip the Fingo-Nubby right over your fingertip, or have your partner hold it for you. It takes finger stimulation to a whole new level. Fingo Nubby Finger Vibrator

Enjoy National Orgasm Day on July 31st!

Sincerely,

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Savor The Flavors Of Summer! (Continued)

If you haven't looked into flavored lubes lately, you might be surprised at how many great-tasting flavors there are to choose from. Once upon a time, you might be able to pick between Cherry or Watermelon. Now flavors like Caramel, Peach, Peppermint, Whipped Cream, and many more offer mouth-watering new horizons. Tasty flavor makes licking, nibbling, and sucking more exciting for you - and it stimulates your salivary glands, which gets your mouth wetter and makes your every move feel better to your lover.

Flavored lube also helps add moisture and keeps everything slicker, longer. Say you want to use your hands to help out during a blowjob. A little flavored lube helps make your strokes as slick as your mouth, and tastes great. Add a little flavored lube to your fingers before going down on her. When you need to give your tongue a break from the action, your fingers can keep the sensation going. You'd be surprised at just how much better oral can feel and taste - and all it takes is a few sweet drops.

Worried about what's in flavored lube? Lots of people do. That's why you'll find flavored lubes made with body-safe ingredients, and plenty of brands that put extra emphasis on natural formulas and rigorous testing. One Adam & Eve favorite, Intimate Organics Flavored Lubricant, is blended with certified organic extracts. Another, System JO's H20 Flavored Lubricant, uses no artificial sweeteners and is gluten free. Even if you have specific sensitivities, odds are you can find a mouthwatering flavored lube that'll meet your needs.

Interested in taking your oral game even further? Flavored Deep Throat Sprays include a special numbing agent to suppress your gag reflex and allow you to go deeper than ever. Kissable Clit Sensitizers add delicious flavor and sensation while you lick. You might be amazed at the orgasmic results. Bring in a tongue vibrator for extra wild results!

Ready to taste some summer fun? Head to Adam & Eve and discover just how many flavors of lubricant are in stock (hint: it's a lot). Plus check out Adam & Eve's own flavored Deep Throat Spray (tastes fruity, smells like cotton candy) and Clit Sensitizer Gel (strawberry).

Breaking the Ice: 5 Cool Tips For Naughty Fun This Summer! (Continued)

All you need is a handful of ice cubes and a bowl so you don't wake up in a big puddle the next morning. Here are the top five ways to give you and your lover goose bumps!

1. The Big Dripper
Start by blindfolding your partner and then lightly run an ice cube over their body - making sure to tease their nipples and other sensitive regions. As the ice cube starts melting, you can hold it a few inches overhead and tease them with the dripping water as well. The cold ice cube combined with the shocking sensation is sure to give them tingles!

2. The Paintbrush
Pick up an ice cube and rub it over your lover's body before licking the melting water off their skin.

3. A Wintery Kiss
Have you ever made out with someone while swapping a piece of gum back and forth?
The Icy Kiss is just like that… just with an ice cube instead of gum.

4. Frosty Oral
Start by sucking on a piece of ice to cool down your mouth and tongue before performing oral sex on your partner. You can hold the ice between your lips or teeth while teasing them or spit it out in a bowl if the sensation proves too much for them to handle. Best of all, this method works equally well for men and women alike.

5. The Cool Down
Men can use ice to help delay their orgasms. When you feel yourself getting close, get your partner to rub some ice cubes along your shaft and balls. The icy sensation will "cool you down" so you can last longer.

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