Eating Pussy: Clit Sucking

Sucking Clit: How to Orally Stimulate the Clitoris

How to Stimulate the Clit Orally

One of the most mystifying sexual techniques, especially to men in heterosexual relationships, is stimulating the clit. That is the female version of “getting head”. Since most women orgasm solely via clitoral stimulation, this is an important technique for any lover to practice and master. Women tend to have an easier time since they themselves have a clit, but it’s useful for anyone to get the nuts and bolts of how to stimulate the clit whether alone or with a partner!

There are three basic ways to stimulate the clit: orally, manually, or assisted. For now, let’s focus on oral stimulation of the clit, otherwise known as female oral sex. For many women, this is the best way for a partner to assist with clitoral stimulation. Using the tongue to stimulate the clit provides a natural lubrication of saliva, and more person to person contact.

First of all, to all the fellas out there, ask your lover how they feel about the feel of stubble against her clit and labia. And if she's not a fan be sure you don’t have the pricklies on your face before you suck her clit. Not all women like rough stubble during oral sex.

Secondly, don’t be squeamish about the way she tastes when performing oral sex. She may be sensitive about it, with the whole “fish smell” stigma and all. Stimulate the clit with pride and joy and brush your teeth afterwards if you must. It is acceptable to request your partner to wash her nether regions before giving oral sex if it makes it better for you. Just ask her in a tactful, nice way. After all, you want her to return the favor right?

When it comes to clitoral stimulation, every woman is different, though similar. Feel free to use other tools while you give her a tongue bath, like a blindfold, so she can really focus on the oral sex sensations. Other fun aids to use while still focusing on the tongue as clit stimulation are handcuffs, ties, flavored gels meant for oral sex, and role-playing.

In this instance, you should remain focused on the tongue as the main clit stimulator, even if using help. You can flick it, stick it, and lick it- all with your tongue as the star clit stimulant. Take your time, it’s not a race. Use deep strokes, circular motions, and short licks and any combination you want. The tongue is very strong, so let it be your guide to her clit stimulation. It wouldn’t hurt to look at a diagram if you’re unsure of the layout. You can also suck the clitoris by placing your lips around the clit and, well, suck like you would a straw. Or gently nibble your lover's clit with your lips, play with the clit like you're trying to pick up a pea and not use your teeth. Your lips are a great secondary tool when sucking clit and eating a woman out.

Change things up too. The same motion over and over and over again is redundant for her and you'll eventually get a cramp in your jaw. Lap at her clit softly for a few minutes and then change the sensation by strongly sucking the clit and then transitioning to making slow but firm circles around her clit. If it sounds like she likes something in particular ask her, ask if she wants it harder or softer. Talk to each other.

Communication is the key. Encourage your lady to guide you to a successful exploration of female oral sex. She knows better than anyone how it feels when her clit is stimulated successfully, so let her be vocal with direction and reinforcement. She can tell you to go left, go right, slower, faster, harder, softer, or whatever she is thinking. Don’t let her be shy! It may take a while since women usually need more focus for a clit stimulated orgasm, but don’t let that dissuade you. Stimulate the clit and ye shall truly be rewarded!

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