A&E's Resident Sex Expert: Dr. Kat (continued)

Your questions answered Dr. Kat Van Kirk, an AASECT certified Sex Therapist and licensed Marriage Therapist. This month's question is…

Dear Dr. Kat,

My husband has to travel during the holidays so I’ll be home alone — especially, with the potential of bad weather. Do you have any fun new ideas I could try out to give myself some extra self-love this season?

Merry Christmas,

Phoebe

Dear Phoebe,

Once you've had your fill of Christmas cookies, screen time and checking in with family, focusing on you can be the best and sexiest gift possible. These suggestions should help you spread the magic all next year, too.

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This warming lube also keeps the chill out

Not used to treating yourself? Start with a luxury vibe in a basic shape.

Christmas gifts are full of surprises. Try a new sensation with a G-spot vibe

And, finally, for inspiration…

Enjoy!

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A Very Wet New Year's Eve (continued)

Gina is my husband's second cousin by marriage, so I guess we're not really related. I met her ten years ago at my wedding. We've been best friends ever since.

Last New Year's Eve, Gina and her date came over for game night and champagne. By 2 AM though, we'd grabbed the champagne and orange juice and headed for the jacuzzi spa. The guys turned in an hour or so later, but we decided to stay in the water a bit longer. At some point during the evening, we'd both stripped down to our panties. Now I couldn't help but notice the way Gina's breasts glistened.

The conversation soon turned to sex. Gina and I had shared many of our secrets over the past years, but the one thing that I'd never told her was that I'd always found her sexually attractive. Petite and dark-haired, she had always reminded me of an erotic elf. She's got the body of a runner, all graceful muscle. On the other hand, I am tall, blonde and curvy. I think that part of my attraction to her had to do with the contrast of our bodies; so different, but still basically the same.

I wanted Gina, but I was afraid of what she'd think if I tried to seduce her. Most of all though, I was unsure how to make love to her even if I had the chance. Like a lot of straight women, the idea of doing it with a woman was a serious turn-on, but now I didn't think I was bold enough to try to fulfill that fantasy, especially with the person I had always thought about as I masturbated.

"I guess it's the champagne talking, but I've got to tell you a secret. I think about making you cum," Gina said with her eyes closed.

OK, well, cool. So now I knew she felt the same way I did. Still, wouldn't it be better to keep this as a fantasy and not risk disappointment? I didn't want to risk losing my best friend. How would we feel about each other tomorrow? I decided to pretend that she was joking. ("Ha-ha-ha, Gina, you sexy little minx!") Later, when we'd had a chance to think things through, I was sure she'd be glad that I had put the brakes on everything before it went too far.

I turned towards her to make a joke but nothing came out. We looked at each other and reached out at the same time. Gina moved closer, our lips met, and we kissed for a long time. All the while, our hands were exploring each other's bodies. Suddenly, I was sober. I had to stop what was happening even though it felt so good. She was warm and soft and everything I'd dreamed she'd be, but I couldn't risk losing her friendship.

"Gina, we can't do this. Think about it. How will you feel tomorrow? It's bound to change our relationship, and I don't want that to happen," I said.

She leaned over me to run her hands down my body. As she touched me, all my doubts melted away as my skin tingled. Tentatively, I reached up with my tongue to kiss her left breast. She kept massaging my body, working her way down to my pussy while I lay back and enjoyed the sensation of having first one, then the other of her stiff nipples in my mouth. Slowly, she moved to my right side and bend down to circle my big ol' titties with her hot little tongue.

As I started to move my legs from the jacuzzi wall, Gina shook her head, "no." She used one of her hands to keep me in place while her other hand slid up my ass. She ran her fingers down one leg and up the other. Lightly, she traced my lips down there with her finger. At that point, I was trembling all over. Finally, she sank her finger into my pussy while watching my face for a reaction. I must have looked ecstatic because she began pumping faster. Using her thumb to ride my clit, she kept her finger buried deep in my pussy. As she slid her finger in and out of my slick vagina, she rolled my stiffened clitoris under her thumb. I could feel myself beginning to peak.

I loved what she was doing to me and I never wanted it to end. Just when I felt that I couldn't stand any more pleasure, she added another finger to my already throbbing puss. When I started to moan, she leaned over and kissed me, saying that she wanted to "feel me come." I sucked her tongue into my mouth as the waves of my climax washed over me. I bet she felt that!

I found that I wanted to give her as much pleasure as she had given me. I wanted to explore every inch of her tight little body. I wanted to know that I could make her feel what I had felt.

"I want to taste you," I said -- when I could speak again.

Gina smiled as I pulled my legs down into the water. I knelt between her legs, which brought us face to face, tit to tit. All of my inhibitions were gone as I held her close and let my tongue trail down her neck. Cupping her left tittie, I bent down to lightly nibble her nipple. She sighed and wrapped her legs around me. I spent some time moving from one breast to the other. Bringing her lower body out of the water, I trailed kisses down her firm tummy. Gina spread her legs wide in the water as I pulled her ass up closer to my face. She was beautiful. Dark, wet curls parted to show me her exquisite little Gina snatch.

I released her and we both rested quietly as we dealt with our own private thoughts as the jacuzzi churned.

"I feel great. How ‘bout you?" I asked.

"I'm totally happy, but now I can't help but wonder if you're having any regrets," she said quietly.

"I think you were right," I mused. "We'll be fine. I mean, I love you, but I'm in love with Tom. I'll have to tell him, you know."

"No doubt about it," Gina laughed. "We'll just take it as it comes, baby. How do you think he'll take it?"

"Why don't you ask me?" Tom declared from the living room doorway. Our heads whipped around to listen. "I didn't want to interrupt -- but I've got to tell you that if I don't get some relief soon, I'm gonna pop," he said as he positioned himself on the deck's bench.

I grinned at Gina. She sheepishly shrugged her shoulders and grinned back. Gina watched as I licked Tom's tool and lightly sucked on his balls. I felt Tom reach for my breasts at about the same time as I felt Gina stroke my ass. I was just about to suck Tom's dick down my throat when Gina started eating my pussy from behind. She slid her tongue in and around my pussy lips until I thought I was going to explode. As she fastened on my clit, I came as I'd never cum before. (Tom later said that it was the best blow-job I'd ever given him. But then again he says that all the time, anyway…)

As he and Gina switched positions, she reached out for him and looked to me for the "go ahead" nod before she spent several minutes licking and tasting his big rod. I must say I enjoyed watching the two of them. I then found myself happily mouthing her pussy while Tom filled me from behind.

We all came in a chain reaction. As we sat entwined in the burbling waters of the jacuzzi spa, we talked about how we felt. Tom didn't care if Gina and I made love every day as long as I shared the experience with him later. He also asked if we'd invite him back to play once in a while. We both agreed he was welcome any time in the new year.

THE END.