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Adam & Eve surveyed 2,000 American adults to find whether they preferred masturbation or partnered sex. You might be surprised by what the men and women said!

Is Masturbation More Enjoyable Than Sex?

For International Masturbation Month this May, Adam & Eve asked 2,000 American adults whether their solo orgasms or their partnered ones were stronger. This web-based survey was part of a larger overall study conducted by an independent third-party partner to determine sexual preferences and practices.

Almost 19% of people said masturbation orgasms were definitely better. Of those responding, women were twice as likely as men to prefer relying on their own hands or toys to take care of business.

When it comes to partnered sex, 39% said it was more enjoyable, making it the clear winner. This time the genders were completely switched. Men were twice as likely as women to prefer sex with a partner.

And 27% of survey respondents reported finding similar pleasure in masturbation and partnered sex. The results were almost equally split between men and women.

So, what makes some people turn to masturbation more than others?

“It’s important to remember that people seek solo satisfaction for many different reasons,” said Adam & Eve’s resident sex therapist Dr. Jenni Skyler, PhD, LMFT, C-PST. “Some participate to relax, de-stress or help fall asleep, others enjoy exploring their own bodies to see what works for them so that they can communicate that to their partners. Some people have a higher sex drive than their partners or are between relationships. Whatever the reason, self-love truly is self-care in action.”

Want to make masturbation more fun? Adam & Eve has plenty of options for you.

Peak Wand Massager

Women traditionally rely on vibrators and dildos for self-care. The Peak Wand Massager is a popular option for its amazing power, multiple vibration modes, and rechargeable design. When it comes to dildos, it’s hard to beat the Sunset Dreams. This toy became an instant hit thanks to its stimulating feel and colorful design. Many consider the rabbit vibrator to be the best masturbation toy for women. Rabbits have been a bedroom staple worldwide for 30+ years! Adam & Eve’s top-performing bunny is the 50 Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit. Its vibrating tip focuses on your G-Spot, while the dancing bunny ears thrill your clit at the same time. This blended stimulation helps many women achieve the Big O.

3 Point Prostate Massager

Men don’t have quite as many solo toy options, but they’ve got some real gems. One of Adam & Eve’s top products is the Fleshlight Stamina Trainer Value Pack. This money-saving bundle includes a full-sized Fleshlight masturbator, a suction cup shower mount, water-based FleshLube, and everything else you need to take care of your new toy. If you’d like something a little more realistic, check out the College Coed Backdoor Booty. This lifelike masturbator features both vaginal and anal entries with stimulating textures. Her spankable rear jiggles with every thrust! Guys can make their masturbation orgasms more intense by targeting the male G-Spot with the 3 Point Prostate Massager. This anal vibe features dual motors with 10 powerful stimulation modes. Its ergonomic design is ideal for prostate thrills… and explosive pleasure!

If the survey respondents had some of these toys, masturbation orgasms might have won!

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