Ultimate Couples' Sex Toys Guide

What are Couples' Toys?

Most sex toys are designed for one person at a time to use. Couples' toys, however, are designed for people to use together! It might be a penis ring with a clitoral stimulator or a vibrator that you can wear during sex. Other common sex toys for couples include strap on harnesses and bondage restraints to help spice up your sex life!

How to Find the Best Couples' Toys

There are hundreds of different couples' sex toys to choose from, which makes it really hard to find one you can both agree on. We asked Adam & Eve's sex toy experts for some advice, and they put together a couples' sex toy guide so you can find your ideal match.

Couples' Sex Toys	Pros	Cons	Suggested Uses
Couples' Vibrators	Can be worn during sex	Might feel unusual at first	Stimulates both partners during sex
Kinky Bondage Toys	Dominate or submit to your partner's sexual desires	Might make some people uncomfortable	Experimenting with kinky sex
Oral Sex Toys	Tongue vibes spice up oral sex Flavored lubes make everything taste better	Won't improve your tongue technqiue (or lack thereof)	Make oral sex even better
Penis Enhancers	Stimulates his partner during sex Helps him last longer	Need to be positioned just right for maximum thrills	Improve his ability to perform in bed
Sex Swings & Position Aids	Experiment with sex positions that you couldn't otherwise do	Can take up lots of bedroom or closet space	Trying new sex positions
Strap On Harnesses	Allows you to wear a dildo during sex	Can be hard to talk your partner into trying it	Role reversal

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How to Buy Couples' Toys

Now that you've met some fantastic sex toys for couples, it's time to do some serious shopping. Here are some other things you need to know about couples' toys before hitting the Add to Cart button.

Start With Materials.
Smart sex toy shoppers know that material affects everything from price to how you use your toy. If you want something soft and flexible, stick with silicone, TPE or TPR. Plastic and glass are good materials for couple's sex toys if you want something hard and firm.

Plan Your Couples' Toy Budget.
There are couples' sex toys out there for all types of budgets. Price depends primarily on two factors - the type of toy you want and the material it's made from. Naturally, you'll pay more for a sophisticated couples' toy with loads of special features than for a basic sex toy.

Agree on a Toy Together.
Couples' sex toys are about bringing you closer together, so it's appropriate that you do your shopping together as well. This allows you both to see the different types of couples' toys. There's nothing wrong with wanting to surprise your partner with a new sex toy. But it's more important to find a couples' sex toy you'll both enjoy, especially if it's your first one.

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How to Use Couples' Toys

It's finally time to try your new couples' sex toy out! Here's what you need to know before getting down and dirty together.

Get Ready.
Give your sex toy a good cleaning first. Make sure any vibrator has fresh batteries for peak performance. Double-check that you've got some lube nearby.

Get Set.
Make sure you're both comfortable and won't be disturbed. Set the mood with some low light and your favorite music.

Let's Go.
Work your couple's sex toy into foreplay and sex slowly and gradually to make sure your partner's comfortable with the toy. Focus on using the sex toy together and trying to please each other. If you find something that feels good, then keep doing it!

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Cleaning & Caring for Couples' Toys

It's not easy to keep your couples' toys looking and performing at their best, so here are three easy to remember rules to help you out.

1. Clean your sex toys before and after each use.
The easiest way to do this is by spraying them with antibacterial sex toy cleaner and then wiping it off with a lint-free towel.

2. Stick to water-based lubes.
Silicone & petroleum lubes can cause chemical reactions with certain types of materials. You never have to worry about that with water-based lubes.

3. Store your couples' sex toy safely.
Keep your couples' toy in its own storage bag. Some toys can be damaged if they come into contact with certain types of materials. And make sure you find a discreet spot to protect your privacy. You don't want your mother-in-law to find your sex swing while seeing your new bedroom curtains.

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