If you've got a question about sex toys for couples then Adam and Eve has the answer! Our Ultimate Couples' Toys Guide is filled with inside information, tips and advice to help you find the very best sex toys for couples, learn how to use them, and how to clean them. Keeping your sex life fresh and exciting is critical for long-lasting relationships.
How to Find the Best Couples' Toys
How to Buy Couples' Toys
How to Use Couples' Toys
Cleaning & Caring for Couples' Toys
What are Couples' Toys?
Most sex toys are designed for one person at a time to use. Couples' toys, however, are designed for people to use together! It might be a penis ring with a clitoral stimulator or a vibrator that you can wear during sex. Other common sex toys for couples include strap on harnesses and bondage restraints to help spice up your sex life!
How to Find the Best Couples' Toys
There are hundreds of different couples' sex toys to choose from, which makes it really hard to find one you can both agree on. We asked Adam & Eve's sex toy experts for some advice, and they put together a couples' sex toy guide so you can find your ideal match.
Couples' Sex Toys | Pros | Cons | Suggested Uses |
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![]() Couples' Vibrators |
Can be worn during sex |
Might feel unusual at first |
Stimulates both partners during sex |
![]() Kinky Bondage Toys |
Dominate or submit to your partner's sexual desires |
Might make some people uncomfortable |
Experimenting with kinky sex |
![]() Oral Sex Toys |
Tongue vibes spice up oral sex |
Won't improve your tongue technqiue (or lack thereof) |
Make oral sex even better |
![]() Penis Enhancers |
Stimulates his partner during sex |
Need to be positioned just right for maximum thrills |
Improve his ability to perform in bed |
![]() Sex Swings & Position Aids |
Experiment with sex positions that you couldn't otherwise do |
Can take up lots of bedroom or closet space |
Trying new sex positions |
![]() Strap On Harnesses |
Allows you to wear a dildo during sex |
Can be hard to talk your partner into trying it |
Role reversal |
How to Buy Couples' Toys
Now that you've met some fantastic sex toys for couples, it's time to do some serious shopping. Here are some other things you need to know about couples' toys before hitting the Add to Cart button.

Start With Materials.
Smart sex toy shoppers know that material affects everything from price to how you use your toy. If you want something soft and flexible, stick with silicone, TPE or TPR. Plastic and glass are good materials for couple's sex toys if you want something hard and firm.

Plan Your Couples' Toy Budget.
There are couples' sex toys out there for all types of budgets. Price depends primarily on two factors - the type of toy you want and the material it's made from. Naturally, you'll pay more for a sophisticated couples' toy with loads of special features than for a basic sex toy.

Agree on a Toy Together.
Couples' sex toys are about bringing you closer together, so it's appropriate that you do your shopping together as well. This allows you both to see the different types of couples' toys. There's nothing wrong with wanting to surprise your partner with a new sex toy. But it's more important to find a couples' sex toy you'll both enjoy, especially if it's your first one.
How to Use Couples' Toys
It's finally time to try your new couples' sex toy out! Here's what you need to know before getting down and dirty together.

Get Ready.
Give your sex toy a good cleaning first. Make sure any vibrator has fresh batteries for peak performance. Double-check that you've got some lube nearby.
Get Set.
Make sure you're both comfortable and won't be disturbed. Set the mood with some low light and your favorite music.
Let's Go.
Work your couple's sex toy into foreplay and sex slowly and gradually to make sure your partner's comfortable with the toy. Focus on using the sex toy together and trying to please each other. If you find something that feels good, then keep doing it!
Cleaning & Caring for Couples' Toys
It's not easy to keep your couples' toys looking and performing at their best, so here are three easy to remember rules to help you out.

1. Clean your sex toys before and after each use.
The easiest way to do this is by spraying them with antibacterial sex toy cleaner and then wiping it off with a lint-free towel.
2. Stick to water-based lubes.
Silicone & petroleum lubes can cause chemical reactions with certain types of materials. You never have to worry about that with water-based lubes.
3. Store your couples' sex toy safely.
Keep your couples' toy in its own storage bag. Some toys can be damaged if they come into contact with certain types of materials. And make sure you find a discreet spot to protect your privacy. You don't want your mother-in-law to find your sex swing while seeing your new bedroom curtains.