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a 33% lower lifetime risk of prostate cancer -- and this relationship grows stronger as men grow older.

But beyond that, men who engage in prostate play simply seem to enjoy it. They report a different quality of orgasm with prostate stimulation with actual increased intensity. They also say it is a nice way to switch up the sexual repertoire that allows their partner to take the reigns of sex so that they can just enjoy and receive pleasure.

I think it's fabulous that your wife is not only open about working prostate play into your sexuality but she is also encouraging you to explore it. She probably finds it a turn on on some level and there is nothing wrong with that. Also, prostate stimulation doesn't have anything to do with sexual orientation. All men have the capacity to respond to prostate stimulation whether through fingers or toys. After all, we all have the same nerve endings -- it just depends on who we are orientated to play with.

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

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your favorite glass dildo and cool it down in a bowl of cold water. Use the dildo for sensual massage and chilly, thrilling penetration!

Take It Outside - It's hot inside, so spare your bedroom the extra warmth by taking your next session into the backyard or other secluded out-of-doors area. Keep the action shady and/or under cover of night and to stay cool as well as discreet.

It's Better When It's Wetter - Start with a dip in the pool or even a hot-and-heavy makeout session under the sprinklers. Then take your lover into a cool shower for a wet and wild time under the spray. Incorporate a waterproof vibrator, cock ring, or other sex toys to kick your experience up to the next level.

Find A Vent - Exactly what it sounds like - position your bed, couch, or other lovemaking surface to catch a direct blast from the air conditioning vent. Right before sex, turn on the air and revel in the comfortable, sexy cold. Make sure to turn it back up post-afterglow - AC can be expensive.

Go Naked - Ditch the clothes and wear your hottest, skimpiest underwear around the house. Tease your lover with your bare skin and stay cool at the same time.

Remember: Adam & Eve has the barely-there lingerie, waterproof sex toys, and everything else you need for sexy summer fun!

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What's worse, even though alcohol lowers inhibitions, it also lowers the ability to have an orgasm. So come clean and learn to pace your intake.

Eat Good Food - Eating healthy is important for a lean, mean lovin' machine like you. Don't expect stellar performance from fuel made of garbage. Drop the fats, sugars, processed junk foods and ingredients you can't pronounce. Keep fresh fruits, vegetables, lean cuts of meat, whole foods and cooking from scratch. (That's right - cooking!)

Work Out - Put the remote down and get up and get the hell out of here. A simple stroll around the park will do more for your temple of love than binge watching Family Guy all day. Add other physical activities you may enjoy, like cycling or tennis. Just remember, it's got to be physical. Put some skin into your game.

Address The Stress - For many men this is the biggest, baddest anti-sex monster out there. Different types of stress can leave you feeling freaked out, exhausted, full of worry and let's just say in possession of a hair-trigger temper? Is that any way to have fun on date night? Learn how to manage stress, address your anger or sadness and your sexual health will sparkle. PS: working out does wonders!

Squeeze & Release - Do you think Kegel exercises are just for the ladies? Your muscle of love is actually connected to real muscles -- so tune 'em up! Performing Kegels strengthens the muscles that hook up the base of the penis to your tailbone. Make that discovery today: next time you urinate, try to stop the flow of urine. Those are your kegels. To work out, squeeze the muscles and hold for a few seconds. Then relax. Then do it again. Contracting muscles like this will build up your sexual strength and give you bigger (and by some accounts - bad ass) orgasms. This exercise is perfect while binge watching Family Guy.

Get A Lube Job - Personal lubricants can make your tally whacker feel brand new. It will increase sensitivity, help you slide around like an Olympian Sex God and keep your Mojo working. Ask around - partners seem to love lube, too!

Keep A No Drugs Zone - If you're getting high thinking you'll enjoy sex more, maybe you're just enjoying the high instead? Most illegal drugs do little, if any good in maintaining sexual health (see our notes about alcohol -- and that's a legal drug). As for medical marijuana, it will be years before all the legal issues are settled on what some people on the web call the "natural Viagra" for both men and women. As marijuana's legal status changes, we'll probably see more reliable research on its perceived benefits.

Check The 'tude - There ARE medical studies that show us that men with a positive attitude towards life also have a hassle-free sex life as well. Ask yourself: "do I have a positive attitude?"

See Your Doctor Once A Year - Sure, no guy wants go near any medical facility, but what you don't know can kill you. Or at least affect your sexual health. To maintain optimum health, get a physical once a year.

-- Compiled From Various Reports

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her G-Spot for unbelievable sensations. The tip of the G-Gasm Delight holds a powerful vibrator with speeds that quickly adjust with a twist for customized vibes, even in the heat of the moment.

3. Pure Aluminum Pink Vibrator - Naturally smooth and stylish, this colorful metal vibrator features a beaded shaft that stimulates your entire vagina and curves. But that's just the beginning. Thanks to its special aluminum design, this vibrator is loaded with unique features - from temperature play to more intense vibrations - to make your playtime extra special.

2. Big O Penis Ring - At the touch of a button, this penis ring's top-mounted vibrator delivers steady pleasure pulses and auto-cycles through 9 stages to send you both into orgasmic ecstasy! Clit ticklers will keep her screaming, and the stretchy nubbed ring keeps you harder, longer! Replaceable battery included FREE - lasts up to 80 minutes!

1. Blue Dolphin - You'll flip for this sensually slick waterproof vibrator! The Blue Dolphin is an aquatic twist on a classic vibrator, complete with a beautiful cobalt hue, sensual veined texture, and a beginner-friendly length and girth for comfortable solo explorations. The flexible jelly warms up quickly to feel like a real lover, and the slender penis head tip glides in easily with just a touch of a favorite lubricant.