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But there are also plenty of things you can do as a couple to keep the home fires burning this fall and winter.

• Keep the air temperature warm enough that you can comfortably be naked. Whether it's with a space heater, fire (which is sexy in its own right) or central heat. Do this even if it's only a few days a week. You can always turn it back on after you snuggle together in bed.

• Get used to some under the covers action. Certain positions lend themselves to covert blanket play.

• Enjoy a hot shower or warm bath together.

• Use this warming lube to heat things up.

• Or a cyberskin-like dildo that warms to body temperature easily.

• Sneak a hand into that big overcoat when you can for a little secret play.

And don't forget that a little body friction is the best heater you could want.

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

DIY Bondage Basics! CONTINUED

Here's how you can use condoms consistently and correctly:

3. A Belt - A thick belt with a buckle can secure ankles in seconds. You can also use it to anchor a pair of tied wrists or ankles to another bar. For example, you might bend your partner over a chair or barstool. While their hands are tied with a scarf or pantyhose, loop the belt between them and under the rung of the chair. Tighten the belt to secure them to the chair.

4. Clothespins - Not sure if you want a pair of professional nipple clamps? Start out in the laundry room. Clothespins can be used to pinch nipples, clit, testicles, and any other sensitive area you can imagine. Since they may come in bags of dozens, you can use a lot at once.

5. Panties - Who needs a ball gag? Not you, because a silky thong makes a fantastic gag. Ball up a pair of panties and order your submissive to bite down while you make them moan in ecstasy.

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• Own Your Pleasure - Research has shown that most women do not achieve climax from intercourse alone. During intercourse try manually stimulating yourself or apply a small vibrator to the clitoris. It's possible to focus pleasure on the clitoris during intercourse. Doesn't a vibrating penis ring sound like fun?

• Stay In The Game - Don't give up. If any one position or activity seems like something he can do for hours, but you just can't -- then change it up. You can offer him some hot manual stroking as a break. Get inventive and he'll appreciate the effort. There are books that explore different positions. There are also DVDs that are chock full of ideas!

For Him
If you don't already know some of these tips, that's okay. That's why we're here to help.

• Timing - Scientists have discovered that a red blooded male can be up and going, sexually, in about 5-10 minutes. For some reason known only to evolution, culture and physiology, women can require up to 20 minutes to get to mojoland. So be patient and follow the next 4 tips in the meantime…
Try game night for a sexy way to get on topic and stay there…

• Every Woman Is Different - Pay attention to what turns her on, makes her feel good -- even the kind of food she likes. Have you noticed her tastes are a little (or a lot) different from the last woman you were in bed with? Don't be surprised or disappointed if some of your "amazing" moves aren't so amazing with a new partner. So just ask. Ask what feels good and you'll be amazing once again.
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• Over-Communicate - Sometimes you just need a firmer touch or a slower pace -- so just say so, or even show her how. When you're both willing to learn each other's body this can be fun.

• Be Nice, Already! - Let her know how awesome she is. When a woman feels knowledgeable and confident about sex with her partner, it'll be easier for her to be in the mood for it in the future.Rub her the right way with gentle massage -- in the nude.

• Never Forget The Romance - Honestly, we don't care how corny this sounds. You can do the easy things, like give her flowers, candy and champagne (okay, maybe wine is better). Consider things relevant to how you both live, too. If you get home from work before she does, get the house cleaned up before she gets in from a hard day at work. Cook a special meal for her. Give a slow backrub...with no strings attached.
Give lingerie as a gift? Crazier things have happened. Go easy at first, with something simple.

-- Compiled From Various Reports

Half-time Sex! CONTINUED

3. Make A Friendly Bet - If you happen to be a football fan, the two of you can always bet on which team is leading at halftime with the loser going down on the winner. Even if you lose, he won't complain if you end up taking things a little further!

4. Flag Football - When he heads for the kitchen to replenish his snack supplies, challenge him to a quick game of flag football and throw a thong in his face. Run into the bedroom and "tackle" him onto the bed when he follows. Your goal is to score a touchdown before the clock expires!

5. The Hail Mary Play - If everything else failed and you're feeling desperate, you can always turn the TV off and refuse to turn it back on until you get the nookie you crave. Be careful though, this play has resulted in more broken relationships than holidays at the in-laws.

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