Forbidden Fruit Newsletter

Adam & Eve's Monthly Newsletter - October 2016 (continued)

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This month Adam & Eve asks…
What kind of animal are you in the bedroom?
A stallion - I can go the distance!
A cheetah - I'm all about speed!
A monkey - I like it swingin'!
A snake - You should see what I can do with this tongue!
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See the results in next month's newsletter
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Dr. Kat

A&E's Resident Sex Expert: Dr. Kat (continued)

Your questions answered Dr. Kat Van Kirk, an AASECT certified Sex Therapist and licensed Marriage Therapist. This month's question is…

Q&A: Girlfriend Dresses Provocatively for Halloween.

Dear Dr. Kat,

Every year my girlfriend dresses slutty for Halloween. I don't understand why she does this. During the rest of the year she is pretty conservative. It drives me crazy. Why do you think she does this?

Sincerely,
Chad

Dear Chad,

Halloween is usually the one time a year that people feel they can play up a side of their personality they are usually inhibited about. I believe that women in particular repress much of their sexuality. There is just too much pressure to conform the rest of the year. So when given the chance to dress provocatively with less judgment on Halloween, many do.

Costumes like sexy pirate, sports fan, or zombie are examples of women taking a theme and sexing it up for themselves. These women are looking for a variety of ways to express themselves sexually, especially by taking traditional costumes and putting a sensual twist on them.

A costume on its own doesn't give a whole lot of insight into the inner workings of anyone. But it can give you a taste of a lurking streak or interest in any given woman. It may not be the costume so much as the way a woman wears it. Is she confident and comfortable in it? Or shy and seemingly embarrassed by what she is wearing? Also, you have to weigh her personality into the equation. Does she have a flair for irreverence? After all, not all women dressed as a dominatrix actually has any interest in S&M. Be careful what you assume.

Sincerely,

Dr. Kat

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Article 1 (Continued)

4 Simple Tricks for a Better Blowjob! (continued)

Quit Using Your Hands
People often combine a blowjob with either shaft-pumping or twisting - creating a Frankenstein-like blowjob and handjob combo. This is just wasted effort as nothing will ever feel as good as your mouth - no matter how sensitive his shaft might be. Take your hands off and see just how deep you can go. You don't need to get to the point of gagging every 5 seconds, but take your time and see how well you do without those hands. He'll appreciate it, and so will you. The more you practice, the better you'll get at going deeper.

Change Your Tempo
A blowjob is a lot like sex. If you keep things at the same speed and even the same position, it's going to get boring fast. Nothing says that you have to be on your knees for a blowjob. So try lying down with him standing over you or maybe while spooning on the bed in a 69. See? Blowjobs are exactly like sex, in that certain positions suck (in a bad way) while others feel absolutely amazing. Likewise, your guy will find changing speeds just as exhilarating. Start off super fast and then slow down to tease him before picking up the pace again and see how long he lasts. Mix it up a bit and you'll keep him on edge for a long time to come.

Play With The Boys

You don't need to go squeezing these things, but fondling that little sack below his penis is going to make him go wild. Just be careful how you treat them. If you're too gentle, then it will feel like you're trying to tickle them. But if you're too hard, you might give them him a case of black and blue balls!

Swallow
Sure it can taste horrible, but swallowing is the perfect way to end a blowjob - especially if you don't usually do it. It's like finding the perfect purse with matching shoes and then discovering they're all on sale for half off. The best way to swallow while minimizing the taste is to take him as deep as you can when he's ready to blow. If you're lucky, it will shoot right down the hatch and you won't even taste it. But this is an all or nothing method. If you change your mind at the last minute, you'll end up with an eyeful. And that's much, much worse than a mouthful.

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Sex Position of the Month

Sex Position of the Month (continued): Jumping Rabbit

A more challenging version of basic doggy, the Jumping Rabbit Sex Position allows the woman to rock back and forth on her partner for extra stimulation and deeper penetration.

Difficulty Level
Intermediate: a moderately challenging sex position for people who want to try something new

Pros & Cons
+ Great for G-Spot thrills and deep penetration
+ Comfortable and enjoyable for both partners
- Requires good balance and flexibility
- Requires above average leg strength

Instructions
Start with the woman in a squatting position with her hands resting flat in front of her. She can either keep her feet flat or lift her heels up depending on her strength and balance. The man then keels down directly behind her, holding her hips for support and comfort. This position allows her to rock back and forth on him for deeper penetration and makes it easier for him to find her G-Spot. Just remember to take it slow, it's easier to get carried away and thrust too deep or too fast.

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Review Roundup

Review Roundup! (continued)

Fleshlight
"when she say's no fleshlight always say's yes. used this fleshlight with my wife. going back and forth from the toy to her. it's the best."

Ace of Spades Gum Drop Butt Plug
"I always felt I was up to a good challenge when it came to feeling full but this toy was crazy. I felt like I was trying to stuff a football up my (butt) without the aid of a punter. No way."

Wild G Spot Vibrator
"Ladies, Ladies, Ladies. If you do not have this magnificent purple miracle (its actually purple) you need to go out and purchase it right now!!! This thing is *bleeping* awesome. I am talking toe curling bliss awesome. I am talking not-minding-that-the-boyfreind-goes-out-for-a-night-with-the-boys-becasue-it-will-leave-me-and-this-toy-alone-together kind of awesome. This thing turned up missing one day (boyfriend's idea of a joke) and I was ready to call CSI Miami to locate it for me. I LOVE this thing! Yeah, it takes one or two tries to train your fingers to learn the buttons, but that is a minor obstacle. I also love the fact that is does not have that plastic Barbie doll smell to it like jelly vibes do. (this is made of silicone). Again, if you don't own it, I suggest that you buy it now. You and your significant other will thank yourselves for such a worthy investment."

Tong Balm
"Ok, I was admittedly a skeptic… I didn't expect any type of cream to make a bit of difference. The first time I used it, after 90 minutes, we had to call 'er quits so we could get up to go to work the next morning. I think I'll save using the balm for weekends when I've got a couple of hours to kill."

Pirates
"My fiance and I bought this for a fun night in and boy was it fun! This movie is awesome. VERY attractive people (I wouldn't really call them actors, haha) and a great plot that has subtle humor. The only thing we didn't like was one of the girls is an absolute spaz! We skipped through all her scenes because she's flippin around like a fish out of water, which is unfortunate because she's really hot but she needs to calm down!!!"

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