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A variant on the popular doggy style position, the woman gets down on her hands and knees. She then bends over an object roughly waist high. She braces her lower arms on the object for extra support, and keeps her legs closed together. Keeping her legs closed limits access to her vagina but also makes it feel tighter at the same time to increase both her pleasure and her partner's. The man then slips his cock inside her from behind, leaving his hands free to play with her ass or breasts, depending on which is more sensitive.

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You can Ask Dr. Kat by emailing her at ask@drkat.com.

Dear Dr. Kat,

My husband has been hanging around his female co-workers a lot and has caused me to be suspicious, because he is now having nocturnal emissions. Is he really dreaming about them? What should I do? I am hurt and upset and he is upset, and doesn't want to talk to me, and I am the one who should be upset, not him. He claims he was dreaming about containers. Can that cause nocturnal emissions? Honestly I don't believe a word. Please reply, I am confused and feel like ending my relationship.

Thanks,
Trinity

Dear Trinity,

Relationships don't exist in a vacuum. This means that both of you, throughout your relationship with one another, will be exposed to a variety of variables in the world; namely, other people. It can be very natural to have attractions to someone else; in fact, it's healthy. We can't go our whole lives with blinders on and it definitely doesn’t mean anyone is going to act on these attractions. Having nocturnal emissions occasionally is also natural for many men, whether they are cheating or not. Women in fact have orgasms in their sleep regularly too; it's just that there often isn't any physical evidence like ejaculate. I'm not sure what you mean regarding his fantasizing about "containers" but literally, ejaculations/orgasms while sleeping can occur regardless of what someone is dreaming about.

If he is clear with you that nothing inappropriate is going on, if you are both happy with other aspects of your relationship and if he doesn't have a history of cheating, then I personally would be compelled to believe him. I would encourage you to move beyond the jealousy and not make yourself suffer about the "what ifs." You may also want to examine why you are feeling this way for yourself. Are you trying to self-sabotage a good relationship for some other internal reason?

Most people are more afraid of what they don't know, so if you are still concerned, why don't you ask to be included in some of the social gatherings with these women? Getting to know someone can tend to alleviate a lot of fears. Plus it also makes you more personal to his co-workers so they might be less likely to act on anything physical with your husband from their end - although I wouldn't focus on this. If he's not cheating it is understandable that he is upset. After all (according to him), the woman he loves is considering ending the relationship based on something he didn't do.

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

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Before we go any further, it is absolutely essential you have and use sunscreen. Especially men who wish to avoid "weenie roast." So guys, it's probably a good idea to apply sunscreen to your privates before leaving for the beach. You may even want to practice this ahead of time to see how you can avoid self-stimulation.

Once at the beach, you'll need some discreet, non-arousing method to re-apply sunscreen. Reviewing sports stats in your mind or the various personnel line-ups of your favorite bands can help here. Also, it's not a good idea to "ask for help" to re-apply sunscreen to your johnson in public. Just trust us on this one.

Since 1931 the American Association for Nude Recreation (AANR) has been advising both naturists and nudists on how to enjoy the outdoors - in their own skin.

Here is their Ten Simple Rules of Beach Etiquette

Rule #1: Respect wildlife and environmentally fragile areas.

Rule #2: Keep the beach clean.

Rule #3: Dress before leaving designated clothing-optional use areas.

Rule #4: Respect yourself and others by following appropriate rules of conduct.

Rule #5: Be polite to everyone.

Rule #6: Always get permission before taking scenic photographs.

Rule #7: Use headsets or keep radio volumes turned low.

Rule #8: Whenever possible, walk along the shoreline. Not only is it more refreshing, but you avoid kicking sand up at the people you pass.

Rule #9: Always carry a towel with you when you leave your spot on the beach.

Rule #10: Observe local beach rules and safety regulations.

And that's the official how-to for nude beaches. The AANR even calls it a "nakation"!

Now here are a few more less formal tips for going buck naked by the shore. Remember how embarrassing some social gaffes can be?

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Wedding season is in full swing, and with it all the craziness of bachelorette party planning and finding the bride a perfect naughty gift. But before you go out and spend money on that giant novelty dildo, you should make sure you're picking the right gift for the right bride.

Bride Type #1: The Blushing Bride. She may be excited about the wedding, but she gets red-faced when sex is even mentioned in conversation. If you want to give her a gift she'll love, it should stay on the tamer side. For lingerie, try full-coverage styles like babydolls - including the Roses Are Red Bridal Babydoll. Or give her sweet-smelling massage oils and lubes like those from Intimate Organics.

Bride Type #2: The Stylish Bride. She's got to be on the cutting edge, and the gifts she likes best reflect that. For lingerie, get her something she can wear out on the town and in the bedroom like a sexy corset - the Basic Instinct Leopard Corset and the Miss Venise Racer Back Corset are sure to turn heads. Or pick her up a naughty top-of-the-line toy like the Extreme Platinum Rabbit Vibe or the Jimmy Jane Form 2 Vibrator.

Bride Type #3: The No-Nonsense Bride. She loves a value more than anything else, so make sure she gets one! Skip the frilly lingerie and give her fun & sexy stockings and garters that can do double-duty under special occasion clothes. And don't get her one sex toy - grab her a kit like the White Wedding Kit and let her try out plenty of different sex toys.

Bride Type #4: The Wild Bride. She cannot be shocked - in fact, she loves to shock you! Pay her back in kind by gifting her the Vibrating Dual Harness Strap-on. Or show her a little restraint with the bondage-riffic Spread Em Bar & Cuff Set. Or get her the biggest, baddest dildo available: the King Kong Dildo. Not extreme enough? Then get her the Shock Therapy Electro Sex Kit - but don't be surprised if testing it out takes over the party!

Bride Type #5: The I'm-With-The-Groom's-Side Bride. You don't really know her that well, but you're being included and want to get her something good. Bring her the fun I Rub My Duckie Vibrator. Or try the Magnifique Natural Contours Massager. Since these vibrators are discreet, you and the bride can safely pretend that you both just think they're innocent massagers. Or try a hot board game like Entice! The Passionate & Playful Couples Game.

There are plenty more kinds of brides, but luckily there's a huge selection of honeymoon gifts and bachelorette party gifts to choose from right now at Adamandeve.com.

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by Candida Royalle
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Is TV taking over your love life?
I'm hearing more and more from people that things in the marital bedroom aren't as exciting as they used to be. With all the demands of kids and work, couples aren’t making time for each other. As one woman put it, "we seem to use the bedroom for TV instead of sex!"

It's not unusual to want flop in to bed and turn on the tube at the end of a long tiring day, but it takes a firm desire to keep the intimacy alive and a creative approach to doing so. If this sounds like you, here are my suggestions:

1. Watch TV in another room! Your bedroom should be reserved for sleep and sex. Watch your favorite shows in another room and then get into bed and cuddle. Take turns rubbing each others aching shoulders. It might put you in the mood!
2. Make a regular date night and stick to it, even if you're not in the mood. Go out for dinner or, if you can't find a sitter, send the kids to bed early and dine at home. (Not in front of the TV!) Spend time together doing things you like. And don't make sex an obligation. Just hanging out and talking will help you stay connected.
3. Too many couples forego vacation time for themselves, instead opting for a "family vacation" like DisneyWorld. I'm not suggesting you forego the opportunity to share time with your kids, but couples need to get away from familiar routines and do something unique. It can be as simple as checking in to a local motel or a romantic B&B for a night or going up in a hot air balloon together. According to Biological Anthropologist Helen Fisher, PhD, "Research shows that novelty-taking risks or trying something new-can trigger the release of dopamine", a key player in the brain’s pleasure center. She explains that she’s "not just talking about novelty in the bedroom (although that would be a good start). You can get the same effect from sampling a new type of cuisine together or riding the roller coaster at an amusement park."

It's important that couples make love no less than every other week. It's what separates your relationship from that of a platonic friendship. And it's the act of making love that releases oxytocin, another important brain chemical that fosters feelings of trust and attachment. "You can stimulate oxytocin with touch", explains Dr. Fisher. "Hold hands while you watch TV, trade massages, or sleep in each other's arms." Studies suggest that sex raises testosterone levels, so the more sex you have, the more sex you desire, for men and women. Now turn off that TV!

Candida Royalle is a former star of the blue movie screen who in 1984 created Femme Productions® and pioneered the genre of woman-friendly adult erotica. In 1999, she launched the Euro-designed Natural Contours® line of high-style discreet intimate products. She's the author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do: Sex Advice From a Woman who Knows; and a sought after speaker on topics ranging from how to have great sex to the politics of free expression. Royalle's product lines are available through AdamEve.com. For more information about Candida Royalle, visit www.candidaroyalle.com.

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3 Sexy Ways to Beat the Summer Heat
After consulting the various weather oracles, we've discovered that this summer is supposed to be a scorcher. But we're not about to let those high temperatures stop you from having smoking-hot sex! You just need to be a little creative when it comes to where and when you have it. And be sure to drink plenty of fluids. It's important to remain hydrated.

The best places to have sex in summer are the same spots you head to when you want to cool off. And at the top of everyone's list is a swimming pool. We advise that you save any XXX pool games for after the sun goes down to cut down on any potential audience. But once you get started, there's a number of things you can do. Underwater oral sex is a huge thrill... especially if your partner's great at holding their breath. You can even use silicone-based lube for anal in the pool. Silicone lube is waterproof so it won't wear off in the water, and you can just wipe it away with a towel once you're done. There are a huge number of sex toys - from cock rings to rabbit vibrators - that are waterproof if you want enhance your aquatic sex experience. One last note of caution, we strongly suggest saving the skinny dipping for your personal pool so no one has to bail you out of jail.

Another great spot to beat the summer heat is your local movie theater. While we're not about to suggest you have sex in the back, there are a number of other things you can do - like reliving your younger days and have a heated make out session. Or you and your partner can have some fun with a wireless vibrator. The mini vibrator slips easily inside her panties or her pussy, while the other gets to play with the controller during the movie. Buzz her pussy and clit at random times to see how many times she climaxes!

Last on our summer sex list is the local ice cream store. While you could try to arrange a quickie in the walk-in freezer, you're better off just picking up a pint or two or your favorite flavors and taking them home. Then, you can cover your lover with a few scoops at strategic locations and create a tasty sundae made for licking. It will be some of the sweetest oral sex either of you have ever had.

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