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Ringing the Bell
A modified version of missionary, this position is designed for deeper penetration and increased tightness. The bottom partner starts lying down on their back and lifts their legs up in the air. The top partner climbs up like regular missionary. The bottom keeps their legs closed and rests their feet on the top's chest. This angle leaves the bottom fully exposed, allowing the top to go deeper than ever with much more ease. By keeping their legs together, the bottom partner also clenches their inner muscles, creating a tighter sensation for themselves and their partner.

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Dear Dr. Kat,

I'm a 35 year old married woman in a ten year relationship. It's gotten to the point where it seems like I'm having the same sex all the time. My husband says he is up for trying something new but I'm not sure where to start, since he probably won't initiate the changes. Basically, my sex life has hit a wall. How can I expand my horizons (and my husband's) in the New Year?

Cheers,
Annette

Dear Annette,

New Year's resolutions are great. They can be a catalyst for positive change -- and they can also fizzle out within a month. I get the feeling that maybe you'd like to experiment with a few new tricks while adding some new sexual behaviors to your long term repertoire to keep things fresh. You can do this by doing two things: 1) Figure out where to push the boundaries and where to leave them and 2) Do something, ANYTHING different.

First off, don't make the mistake of going overboard too quickly. For instance, if the both of you know you want to keep things monogamous, I wouldn't suggest you bringing a third party into bed. Or, if he knows you hate to watch yourself on video, he shouldn';t go videotaping your sex romps without you knowing. However, people tend to find a lot more negotiable in their sex lives than they realized when they start to talk about it with their partners honestly. So, you might begin by planning a special night together with him and bring up the issue over a sexy dinner. I understand that you may need to initiate this first foray into the sexually explorative discussion but sex (usually, unless your masturbating by yourself) is a two way street. Part of what he needs to buy into during this discussion is his own responsibility in this relationship to turn up the heat as well. The issue is not your issue alone.

What you'll both need to find out is what turn's you on at the core? What do you respond to sexually without even thinking? And don't rule out acts that you would consider socially unacceptable - rape fantasies rank among the most common fantasies for women - obviously you'd play this one out within reason. If you can't think of anything off hand, rent/buy some erotic videos: with varying themes and see what your body (and your mind) responds to. This can be a great way for the both of you to get conscious about what gets you off and it can also be a fun way to lead to a little sex play in front of the tellie.

Once you get a few ideas together, talk out the top one or two behaviors that you both seem most interested in. Granted, you both may find you have different erotic interests. But if you both discuss your favorites you can both figure out how far you're willing to go to fill one another's fantasy. An example might be that he'd love to try anal sex with you but you're not into the idea of jumping right in to full penal/anal penetration. Why not then, buy a good lube a couple of non-intimidating anal toys to play with? Decide that you'll initially only play on the outside of the anus and then maybe (if you're comfortable) graduate up to finger insertion.

Maybe he's a control freak but you've always wanted to tie him up and experiment with a little S&M. Negotiate what his limits are. There are many accoutrements now that allow for "light" S&M play; satiny sashes that don't tie too tightly and soft, playful whips. Check out Adam & Eve's Sexy Extras. Just be sure you both decide on a "safe word" that let's you each know when you're seriously done playing - many people like to say "no" or "don't" as a part of the sex play. A safe word should be a word not normally used during sex...perhaps something as random as "kumquat" or "constellation".

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

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Put down that Mayan calendar and start 2012 with a bang! No one knows what the new year holds, so why not let your hair down, or your clothes, and have a little fun?

It's never too late to surprise, shock or awe yourself and/or your partner with the simplest sensual gesture or the most outrageous kink.

After talking to nearly every one here at Adam & Eve as they left the break room, here's what we came up with... and you don't even have to buy anything for many of these crazy-fun sex resolutions!

1. Sleep In The Nude
Many people already do, but if you've never tried it – give it a go. See if it affects your dreams or just delight in the sensual experience. Your partner might be delighted as well!

2. Shower Together
Probably best on the weekend or when you're not rushing off to work. No doubt your communication skills will tested in such a small space. When he bends over for the soap...

3. Wear a Thong
Thong wearers can go to the next item. Now, the rest of you – what the hell, right?

4. Talk Dirty
This is most effective if you are not normally one to swear or use expletives. Sneak it in one evening, test the waters – and remember who you're talking to – things can heat up!

5. Try Something You're Sure You Won't Like
If it makes you say "ew," then run towards it, not away from it. At least you can say you tried it – and that's plenty!

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Candida Royalle

Candidly Speaking
by Candida Royalle
© Femme Productions ®

I can't tell you how often I've had married friends tell me they're taking a pass on vacation because they can't afford it or if they are taking one, it's to Disney World with the kids. Don't get me wrong, I think it's great to do things with your kids, but I think most people don't understand how important it is to get away as a couple, if even just overnight.

You've heard the old expression, the "seven year itch", or the "four year itch" since the work of Social Anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., came to light. (Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love, and ANATOMY OF LOVE: The Natural History of Mating, Marriage and Why We Stray.) It's all about the boredom that can set in to a long term relationship. But it doesn't have to happen. As Dr. Fisher points out, one of the ways

to avoid this marital ennui is to get away together, just the two of you, to a completely new setting.

This doesn't have to be an elaborate, expensive trip to the other side of the world. What you're looking to do is place yourselves in to a completely new environment, one that's unfamiliar, where the two of you are alone, without the kids or any one else. Taking a room in a nearby motel or a quaint Bed & Breakfast on the other side of town can achieve that goal. What you're looking for is an element of "newness". And if you add an activity you haven't done before, it adds yet another unfamiliar element, something "unknown". It can be as simple as learning a new sport, seeing a new music act, or going up in a hot air balloon! It's the sense of newness that inspires you to feel romantic and want to make love.

And if you don't feel like making love the first night, don't push it. Feeling obligated is not an aphrodisiac! Just relax together, laugh, cuddle. Let your energy flow and it will happen spontaneously when you least expect it. Maybe you'll end up making love when you get home! (Or you might get an irresistible urge to pull over and have a quickie in the car! Shhhhh!)

The point is, you need to make time just for each other, and making the effort to shake things up and place yourselves in a whole new setting can do wonders for a long term relationship. It's essential if you want to keep the love and the loving in your marriage. So once the holidays have passed and the kids are back in school, find a weekend you can both take off, someone to watch the kids, and head out to that cute no-tell motel you've been eying for a sexy little get-away. And don't forget to hang out that 'Do Not Disturb' sign!

Candida Royalle is a former star of the blue movie screen who in 1984 created Femme Productions(R) and pioneered the genre of woman-friendly adult erotica. In 1999, she launched the Euro-designed Natural Contours(R) line of high-style discreet intimate products. She's the author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do, (Simon & Schuster) and a sought after lecturer at universities and professional conferences, including the World Congress on Sexology, the American Psychiatric Association and the Smithsonian Institute. Royalle's product lines are available through AdamEve.com. For more information about Candida Royalle, visit www.candidaroyalle.com.

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The Sexy Dinner Party

While everyone else is stressing and struggling over their New Year Resolutions, we suggest you kick back and plan a dinner party for a small group of your closest friends. And, since this is Adam & Eve after all, you should make it a sexy dinner party! We've researched the topic thoroughly and put together a basic menu for you filled with aphrodisiacs from beginning to end to put you and your guests in a frisky mood! If you need some extra inspiration, then you can check out the award-winning Dinner Party series on DVD.

Appetizer
Traditionally either soup or salad, the appetizer sets the standard for the rest of the evening. We suggest serving oysters - either raw or cooked depending on your personal tastes - and champagne. It's a great way to set the mood and oysters are relatively easy for couples to feed to each other.

Entree
According to our resident foodies, salmon is the way to go as it helps boost sexual hormones in both men and women. Since it's a little too cold to grill, we suggest searing them on the stove and serving them with a side of asparagus, another aphrodisiac.

Dessert
The last course calls out for the greatest aphrodisiac of all, chocolate. This is the perfect chance to pull that chocolate fountain out of the closet with some freshly cut strawberries, bananas and other fruit. Or you could show off your cooking skills by preparing a delicious chocolate torte or souffle!

After serving up such a delicious meal, your guests are sure to run home afterwards to work off all those aphrodisiacs... so your spouse can drag you off for your own happy ending!

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