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What turns her on? Does she respond well to clitoral stimulation? Are you looking for a toy you can use with her? Curious about anal stimulation? Most online shops have their toys grouped in categories according to what the toy does for you. Pick something in your price range that you think might appeal to her or you as a couple. It's best to start basic and work your way into more complex toys.

Now, for how to get started? Go on a sex toy date! Yes, schedule a little time with your partner and her new friend. Don't expect to break it out last minute when you're with your girlfriend and realize you don't even know how to turn it on. Or keep thinking you'll both "use it someday" and let it rot in the nightstand. Spend some time on figuring out how it works and then create a special evening around introducing it to your girlie.

Don't forget to think outside the box. If it vibrates, don't just press it into her clitoris. Try holding it gently against her labia, inserting it, and rolling it over the clitoris. Try different variations of handling the toy. It may also be great to put it against her nipple or outside of her anus. The possibilities are endless. It will truly be the gift that keeps on giving.

Sincerely,
Dr. Kat

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Perfectly Sized Condoms. Though most condoms out there are said to be one-size-fits-all, guys know there can be big differences in fit and feel. If the standard fits aren't getting your motor running, Lifestyles Snugger Fit Condoms aim for the gentleman seeking a tighter, more secure fit. Lifestyles XL Condoms are designed to comfortably cover larger sizes.

Ultra-Thin Condoms. Never let safety interfere with your pleasure by using ultra-thin condoms. These condoms offer the same protection, but their thin design gives you more sensation - so it feels like you're wearing next to nothing at all.

Desensitizing Condoms. Give your erection a go-long boost. Desensitizing condoms like Adam & Eve Marathon and Trojan Pleasures Extended condoms have just a hint of desensitizer inside the condom, so you can take the edge off and go for a longer, more lasting experience. They're also a great way to discreetly use desensitizer without pausing the action.

Not sure which condoms are the right ones for you? Reach for one the condom sampler packs at AdamandEve.com and try out several different styles for an ultra-low price. Then add your favorite toy, movie, and/or lube to your order to create your own very special safe and happy holiday pleasure package.

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4. Crazy Girl Tushy Teaser - Perfect for that first conversation about anal play! Sized right for early exploration and sensual stimulation, 4" long with a width of 1/4" to 3/4" wide. Crazy...like a fox!

5. Vibrating Mood Ring - This penis ring helps him stay harder, longer while at the same delivering delicious vibrations to the clitoris. Sounds like a win-win, doesn't it?

Add Just A Dollar: 5 Sexy Toys Under $12!

1. Feathered Nipple Clamps - Don't let the word "clamp" scare you -- each one is fully adjustable to your preference, and covered in super soft vinyl. Highly rated by Adam & Eve customers, each stimulating clamp lets your breasts sport some sexy soft feathers, too.

2. A&E's Scarlet Obey Me Blindfold - Thanks to a certain popular book, blindfolds are hot this holiday season. This stylish red and black number features dual elastic straps for a sure fit. Imagine the fun when your partner can't see what you're about to do next!

3. First Time Duo Lover Love Balls - Take a walk on the wild side! Gently insert these weighted Ben Wa style balls into the vagina -- as you walk, they stimulate and encourage a kegel workout for better muscle tone in your pelvic region. Each plastic ball is 1" in diameter, 8 1/2" pull cord.

4. Double Tap Speeder Vibrator - We've improved the classic vibrator with a more slender body, targeted tip and easy speed control. This 7" x 1" lover is perfect for solo and couples play.

5. Oral Sex Dice - Looking to break out of that same-old, same-old routine? Then play games! See how your luck changes with just one roll. Highly rated by Adam & Eve customers, too!

These aren't your everyday stocking stuffers, but then again Adam & Eve isn't your everyday store!

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For The Green Guru: Intimate Organics
This company specializes in vegan-friendly and all organic lubes and lotions.

For the Glamour Girl: Studio Collection Makeup Brush
This discreet vibe blends in perfectly with the rest of her makeup collection so she can take it virtually anywhere.

For the Busy Professional: Bedroom Bondage System
Submitting to your partner as they tie you up is a timed-tested way to relieve office stress.

For the Geek: Star Wars XXX DVD
See Princess Leia like you've never seen her before in this adult take on the classic series.

For Book Lovers: Fifty Shades of Grey
If you haven't read this erotic thriller yet, there's still plenty of time before the movie comes out Valentine's Day.

For Someone Who Likes Taking It Easy: Bubble Love Water Jet Massager
This innovative toy fits inside your tub and creates a stimulating and relaxing stream of water and bubbles - it's like having your very own hot tub!