Worshipping your man’s penis can be one of the most satisfying parts in your sexual routine. For some, kneeling at their partner’s feet and taking his most sensitive area into their mouth is more intimate than sex. It shows his trust in you, desire, plus it puts you in a position to drive him totally wild!
Giving the ultimate blowjob should be fun for both partners, not some chore on your to-do list. Enthusiasm and excitement often make all the difference between a so-so blowjob and an ultimate blowjob, and people who have mastered the art of oral sex understand what else drives a man wild. Follow these tips to treat him to the best blowjob of his life:
Tease Him Before the Blowjob
- Dress to impress. Men are visual creatures, so make sure he’s got plenty to look at. Sexy lingerie like a cleavage-baring corset or a sensual striptease are a great prelude before giving him the ultimate blowjob.
- Touch and tease. Run your fingertips up and down his body. Pump his shaft a few times while breathing on it. Kiss his belly and inner thighs, or start at his lips and work your way down. But don’t actually start blowing him yet. You want that anticipation to build.
- Use your words. Stimulate his other senses with some dirty talk. Tell him how much you are going to enjoy this and what you are going to do to him. Hint: You may even want to start things off with a sexy text or phone call as a prelude, so he knows what’s in store for him later.
Open Wide & Start Blowing
When he can’t handle any more teasing, and is hard and ready, it’s time to dive on in.
- Slide your tongue along his shaft. Slowly start licking his shaft up and down with your tongue. After a few good laps take him into your mouth. Take as much as you are comfortable with then start to suck.
- Eye contact. There is nothing sexier than watching your lover’s reactions to every move you make. Look him straight in the eye with every suck and stroke.
- Enthusiasm. Even if you’re not the most experienced fellatrix, enthusiasm goes a long way. If you are into what you are doing, he’ll be too.
- Pay attention. All men are different, so when in doubt about what he likes or doesn’t like…ask. If you hit a certain spot that makes him gasp in delight – do it again.
- Take control. If you’re going to go down, act like you mean it. You are the one with the power in this situation. Make him tell you what he wants.
- Use your hands. Grasping the base of the shaft and pumping or twisting your wrist around it while orally working the head adds a variety of stimulation and can give your jaws a break - without breaking the mood.
- Change your speed. Try a variety of speeds and degrees of suction until you find the one that puts him over the edge. Once you do find that magical pace stick with it and keep that rhythm going.
- Humming. They don’t call it a “hummer” for nothing. Humming or moaning while giving your man a blowjob causes the throat to vibrate for added sensations.
- Get it wet. Make sure you’ve got plenty of spit worked up; most guys like their blowjobs wet and sloppy. It also provides a good glide for your lips to work him over. Plus, pulling back and seeing sexy saliva dripping from your mouth and his shaft can be a total turn-on.
Add a Little Sizzle to Your Blowjob
- Frenulum: A dude’s second favorite “F” word. The frenulum is the “V” shape on the underside of the penis where the shaft meets the head. It’s considered one of the top male erogenous zones, so make sure to give it some extra attention with light licks and twirls of your tongue.
- Don’t forget about the twins. The underside of the scrotum is also super sensitive. If you’re licking the shaft, consider going all the way down and giving his balls a treat too. And if you’re REALLY feeling adventurous, travel a little further down into the region we call the “taint.” It’s the often forgotten no man’s land between the sack and the anus. A little lick there and he’s sure to be a happy camper.
- Chill out. Put an ice cube in your mouth then slide your way down. The difference in temperature between the coldness of the ice and the hotness of your mouth will drive him wild.
- Be spontaneous. Sometimes you might want your lover to know what’s on the sexual agenda, but nothing shows off your passion like surprise head – whether it’s a morning blowjob or a binge-watching something-on-Netflix blowjob.
- Throw in some kink. If your guy’s adventurous enough, you could try fingering his backdoor for a little prostate stimulation. It’s an easy way to send him over the edge. Just be careful. Introducing a new element into your blowjob routine when he’s close to finishing might throw him off his game.
- Flavored lubes. Turn his tool into a tasty treat with a flavored lubricant. They’re a great way to add some extra excitement and additional slickness. And for those who have a sensitive gag reflex, there are even gels and sprays that help relax the throat allowing you to take him deeper, more comfortably.
Spit or Swallow After the Blowjob?
Most guys would prefer you swallow, but it’s all up to you. If you’re not completely comfortable swallowing, and you can tell he’s about to blow, you can always point your guy in another direction such as your chest or even your feet if he’s so inclined. Your guy will be so happy after getting his ultimate blowjob, he probably won’t even notice where he finishes!
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