The taboo pleasures of prostate stimulation hasn't gone by unnoticed… did you see Road Trip when one of the characters succumbs to anal seduction by the nurse in order to give a semen sample? Male anal play goes all the way back to the dawn of time and was especially popular in Greek and Roman cultures. Many men incorporate anal stimulation into their sexualities or at the very least have experimented with it. This can be a whole new aspect to sex that is just waiting to be explored. And I've heard that the orgasm associated with it can be quite intense.
So, if you're interested in prostate stimulation there are a few things you should know. Number one is to separate anal play from the concept that it "makes you gay". The fact that your body may respond to a physical sensation has nothing to do with your sexual identity.
Lube is your friend… use it! Your anus doesn't have as much natural lubrication so invest in some good lube. There are now specific brands that are a little thicker available for anal play. Novices should especially be using lube to avoid anal tears and bleeding. I believe that some people who have tried anal sex have ended up hating it just because they didn't use any. It can profoundly change the experience.
Take the process slow. Anal penetration (whether on a male or a female) is not something you dive right into and especially not with a 10 inch strap-on dildo. Start with some external stimulation and the just have your girlfriend gradually work her way in with her fingers - watch for long nails though (ouch). If she feels uncomfortable about using her fingers or there's concern about safety or cleanliness, she could always use a pair of latex glove during insertion.
I would suggest starting with fingers, moving to smaller anal dildos, plugs, or vibes and then eventually working up to a strap-on. Strap-ons can be a little tricky in the fact that there's no sensation of depth for the person who is using it on the other. Which means that your girlfriend won't be able to tell through a piece of rubber or silicon how far she's going in, how tight the anus is, or how much friction she's creating by pumping in and out, or if the lube might be drying out. Therefore, you've got to be very clear to communicate with your girlfriend about what feels good and what doesn't. The person who is getting penetrated should actually be the one in control. If your girlfriend is looking for a little sensation for herself, there are strap-ons that have clitoral stimulators on the inside of the mounting piece that rubs her clitoris as she's penetrating you. In fact, it might be helpful for you to first try stimulating yourself before you hand over that honor to someone else. That way you'll know what you like ahead of time and can really control the experience.
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